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The Unwinding

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The Statue of Liberty. 9:30 PM. Photo: Jeffrey Hirsch.
Monday, July 8, 2013. Very hot weekend in New York. The kind of heat that just won’t go away. You’d walk outside after dark and it was swarming warm. Back inside.
I stayed in town over the weekend, which I am happy to do because the calendar is blank and the time can be spent reading or doing nothing – which is a challenge even when I’m doing it. Nothing.

I’m reading a book by George Packer called “The Unwinding; An Inner History of the New America.” I had read a review of it in the Times which wasn’t entirely positive but made me curious as to what the author was going to talk about, and in what way. Would it be statistics and economic theory or political rants? If so, Zzzzzz.

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It was one of those books that I bought with the intention of possibly not reading it (beyond the first ten pages). It’s 430 pages and I’m three quarters of the way through. The author tells his story through profiles of a variety of Americans, mainly ordinary working people whom we’ve never heard of, in towns we may have known or not. There are some famous ones too: like Robert Rubin, the former Treasury Secretary, and Oprah and Jay-Z. And some towns, like Tampa and Youngstown. There may be  more; I’m not through.

So it wasn’t the kind of book I thought it might be (stats, etc.) and I find myself wanting to do nothing but read it. It’s a documentary, a movie, in some ways like a watching a train wreck and a car wreck you knew was going to happen because you knew the engineer who was always busy elsewhere, and car’s driver was texting on his cell instead of watching the signs on the road.

But it’s uniquely American. It’s Steinbeck re-visited with its own rich texture that we all know as citizens of this extraordinary country and culture. A friend of mine referred to this sort of thing as “pessimistic.” I know what he meant because the news isn’t “good news,” mainly. But that’s life: the news often isn’t good. But we’re still here and so maybe there’s a chance that we can do something about it. Something good.

That’s what July 4th was always all about; something good, something worth celebrating.
July 4th fireworks as seen from 13th Street and 6th Avenue. Photos: JH.
Meanwhile, out in Wainscott, Charlie and Susan Calhoun Moss hosted an annual 4th of July luncheon for their friend Peter Brown who became an American citizen 17 years ago. Peter was born in Britain. At this time in his life, he is an extremely influential public relations executive handling a lot of famous clients, many of whom prefer staying out of the news, so don’t even ask; celebrities, royal personages, etc.

I don’t know him well although I often see him at Michael’s where he usually occupies a table next to the table I usually occupy. Back in the days of '60s rock and roll and the Beatles, the Stones and Elton John, and the British invasion, Peter was there. He knows everybody, rockers, royals, bankers, writers, and his neighbors. You can see by the pictures that it was a very “at home” kind of luncheon with a long table occupied by longtime friends.
Jack Peterson in front of 16 years of group shots of the Peter Brown 4th of July Luncheon.
The guests at the 17th annual Peter Brown 4th of July Luncheon.
The Moss' house also has an interesting history, as it was once the local Post Office, built in 1880, way back when the world was different and everybody had a lot less energy available, no cars, no phones, no lights, and hardly any technology, so messages were sent by taking pen in hand.

But that was then. Now the house, having been uprooted – in 1978 – like the rest of us, overlooks the sea (and Wainscott Pond), and meadows and trees of green. It had its day as a post office and now is vitally involved in sheltering mirth and joy, and all the other things that go on under domestic shingled roofs.  A perfect example of what I meant by “something good.”
The house as the Post Office on Main Street in Wainscott, New York in 1880.
The house as it looked when it was originally moved in 1978.
The house as it looks today from the Atlantic Ocean side.
View from the porch.
From the pool looking towards the Altlantic.
An ancient Korean stone Buddha greets you as you walk into the back garden.
Back to the Mosses, the hosts. Each year at this luncheon, Charlie reads from The Declaration of Independence. Always good to remind what our Forefathers had in mind. The luncheon included Paige Peterson, Peter Brown, Imogen Lloyd Webber, Christopher Hewat, Jamison Hewat, Fred Shuman, Stephanie Shuman, Fred Seegal, Robyn Seegal, Bonnie Chajet, Clive Chajet, Annie Gwynne Vaughan, Morgan Silver Greenberg, Carol Ryan, Ed Victor, John Loeffler, Debbie Loeffler, Don Weiss, Allison Weiss, Bob Cochran, Suzanne Cochran and Murray Nossel
The luncheon coterie.
Peter Brown, Stephanie Shuman, Ed Victor, Bonnie Chajet, and Charlie Moss reading from The Declaration of Independence.
Peter Brown and Susan Moss.Bob Cochran and Morgan Silver Greenberg.
Debbie Loeffler and Charlie Moss.
Imogen Lloyd Webber and Debbie Loeffler.
Annie Gwynne Vaugn.
Paige Peterson, Susan Calhoun Moss, and John Loeffler.
Other good news from across the sea: Thursday a week ago at the University of St. Andrews in Fife, Scotland, UK, our friend Harry Benson was given an honorary degree of Doctor of Letters. Coincidentally, Harry and Peter Brown came into their professional lives on similar turf.

Harry Benson's view of DPC taking pictures at the Central Park Conservancy "Hat Lunch," circa 2010. I think I was taking a picture of Harry taking a picture.
Harry first came to America traveling with the Beatles on their first American tour. All those memorable shots of John, George, Paul and Ringo jumping up and down on their beds in the Plaza Hotel (I think it was the Plaza) and them mugging for the camera in Central Park, were taken by the intrepid Harry. All these years later Harry has taken some of the most famous images of our age, often here in America. He even married a girl from Texas and set up housekeeping in little ole Manhattan.

In all those years Harry
(who even went with George Harrison on his honeymoon), has photographed every President from Dwight D. Eisenhower to Barack Obama. He’s marched with (and photographed) Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., photographed the riots in Watts, the Hurricane Katrina in New Orleans, the Berlin Wall as it was being built and as it was being torn down. He was with Senator Robert F. Kennedy that fateful night at the Ambassador Hotel in Los Angeles when he was murdered and in the meantime photographed scores of famous stars and even Michael Jackson in his bedroom. He’s even photographed me for God sakes.
Topsy Taylor, DPC, Emilia Saint-Amand, and Joy Ingham, taken at Michael's restaurant by Harry for his New York Book which he did in collaboration with Hilary Geary Ross, New York New York (Powerhouse Books). The book is an extraordinary compendium of New Yorkers then and now, done in that famous Benson style; a one of a kind. Topsy, Emilia, and Joy were the ones who introduced me to that great charity "City Harvest" that all three women devoted much of their time to for years.
Harry is indefatigable, full of mirth and full of beans. He’s a longtime, good American but also a Scotsman by birth and sensibility (and quite a bit of that accent if you listen carefully – as he’s more a listener than a talker.

A few years ago, The Queen awarded him a CBE (Commander of the Most Excellent Order of the British Empire). I know he was very touched to have received that honor. Nevertheless, he still lives here in New York on the Upper East Side with Gigi, that Texas girl he met way back when. Gigi is his rock, and the mother of his daughters.
Harry Benson receiving an honorary doctorate from The University of St Andrews.
 

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