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Profile. 2:00 PM. Photo: Jeffrey Hirsch.
Wednesday, April 10, 2013. Very warm, yesterday in New York (mid-80s); and sunny. And for the first time this year, some of the pears had begun to bloom – just ever so slightly. By Saturday it’ll be a festival of blossom clouds along the side streets  – especially on the Upper East Side – and along parts of some avenues of Manhattan.

Across the avenue from me, as if it were magic, yesterday the trees sprouted their buds on the branches, a pale green, almost tan to the eye. On my side of the avenue (east) where we don’t get direct Sun until mid-afternoon, we’re not quite there. Tomorrow.
Hosts of golden daffodils ...
The Springtime is two things for me: the new fresh beauty of the greening that opens up the spirit after the dark winter, and the absolute reminder for all: Mother Nature is  always in charge. Something a lot of us – especially those who are  in positions of authority often forget. To the peril of all. Everywhere.
Dining al fresco ...
At noontime I went down to 8 ½, the restaurant in the subterranean level of 9 West 57th Street, to lunch with Allison Rockefeller and Missy Falchi.

Rockefeller and Falchi are very involved with the Women in Conservation Program of the National Audubon Society. This year they are celebrating their 10th Anniversary Women in Conservation Luncheon and the  2013 Rachel Carson Awards which will be held on May 29th in the Grand Ballroom of the Plaza.

Marian Heiskell.
Rachel Carson.
This year's honorees are Marian Heiskell,  philanthropist and Conservationist and the late Lady Bird Johnson, First Lady and Environmentalist. Mrs. Heiskell will receive the inaugural Rachel Carson Lifetime Achievement Award. Lady Bird Johnson’s award will be accepted by her daughter Lynda Johnson Robb.

So what was the conversation? Missy Falchi, who grew up in a little town in Texas told me how during Lyndon Johnson’s Presidency, Lady Bird made it her project to clean up the roadways and highways across America. People made fun of it at the time but today the great success is evident everywhere.

Missy recalled how when she was a very young girl, the highways in Texas were barren, unkempt and often littered with all kinds of detritus. Today they are cleaned, groomed, planted and landscaped with green Often true all over the nation, thanks to Mrs. Johnson.

I was reminded of the irony that all of the beautification and partnership with nature was happening while the war was expanding and raging in Viet Nam.

We talked about Rachel Carson and her seminal work, “The Silent Spring,” and how that one woman started a movement of consciousness that now exists within all of us, even those who ignore it. We talked about the bees dying en masse in California and how they are being killed by the pesticides genetically engineered into the seeds. And we talked about how Rachel Carson’s work unwittingly created a movement among women to Do Something About All Of It.

Which brings me back to this past Monday night and another organization of women. The International Women’s Health Coalition hosted its annual fundraising dinner at the Pierre and honoring Christiane Amanpour who was also the keynote speaker.

Amanpour’s subject was women’s rights. She noted that there should be a special place in hell for women who do not help other women. She spoke about witnessing a female circumcision in Africa during the making of a documentary about it. She conveyed the horror of the young girl’s brutalization with great compassion and was very effecting in her delivery.
Amanpour speaks ...
Amanpour is one of those women (or men) whose voice along with a vague foreign accent add to her credibility.  Listening to her I was thinking I’d believe her because she’s saying it. That’s the power of these television newspeople.

There are few like her, however. I have the feeling in her essence, she’s serious and she’s smart. I could be wrong of course. One thing I have learned in this phase of my life Out There In the World is that many who are credible are only partly truthful or reliable. Could they be always truthful and reliable? No.
There is a sincerity in Amanpour's presentation that is powerful and credible.
Nonetheless Amanpour closed with the reminder: a six-year-old girl is value.
Marlene Hess, Gala Chair and Francoise Girard, President IWHC.Catherine Gellert, Adenike Esiet and Ann Unterberg
That’s the way it was Monday night. Listening to Amanpour evoked thoughts of my own mother – who died twenty-five years ago at 82 after a long hard life of labor and strife – much of it the result of the mores and rules of her time and generation and the paucity of support that women can access more easily and frequently today. She was such a hard worker, and also possessed a great curiosity about many things (which I seem to have inherited), and yet her life was a struggle. I was thinking that had she been born in my generation, she would have had a much different, perhaps more desirable way of life because the rules have changed and continue to change for the equality of the sexes.

The IWHC’s activities are taking many matters into their own hands and it is very exciting to watch and learn about. Because they are doing what Mothers – good, attentive, caring Mothers – do the world over: make life better for us all.
Dr. Babatunde Osotimehin, Francoise Girard, Marlene Hess, and Adenike Esiet.
There is so much on the calendar all of a sudden that it seems impossible to report all of it adequately.

Last night New Yorkers for Children held their annual Spring dance A Fools Fete over at the Mandarin Oriental in their great ballroom overlooking Columbus Cirlce, Central Park South and the Park.

I couldn’t make it although I’ve been many times before. It’s a big, young crowd – 20 – 40-somethings. The women glam it up and sparkle in their designer gowns, and the men are sharply turned out in black tie. It’s a great evening. And they raise money to assist New York children coming out of Foster Care the way a good parent helps his or her child in preparing them for college and adult life.

So I missed that one. And I missed a real treat earlier in the evening when Liz Smith interviewed Whoopi Goldberg  over at the Cosmopolitan Club. This was a benefit for Maria Droste Counseling Services. Whoopi is another, like Amanpour, who completely draws me in with her wit, her humor and humanitarian, common sense spirit.

I went down to Cipriani 42nd Street whereThe Paris Review was hosting its annual Spring Revel. This is a massive party, with several hundreds guests, many of whom are members of the literary community  -- authors, agents, editors, publishers, etc.  Many others are closely associated with this community because of their friendships, marriages and through their professional lives.
It’s the only time I go to the Cipriani 42nd Street that I don’t have to wear a black tie. Well, not the only.  But almost.  Most of the men wear jackets but a lot go tieless, with the women looking a lot more pulled together than the men. I always wear a tie. So did my host, James Goodale as well as the other men at the table.

There’s a comfort level that comes from the overall vibe of this evening. I’m sure, this being New York, that there are other vibes operating too. All characters of literature are parented by the imaginations of the writers, who are, after all, only human...

Nevertheless, it’s another kind of fete – fools, or otherwise. They honor writers for their achievements. They honored Paula Fox, now in her 90th year, with the Hadada Award presented by Zoe Heller. They honored J. D. Daniels with the Terry Southern Prize for Humor, presented by John Hodgman. And they honored Ottessa Moshfegh with the Plimpton Prize For Fiction.
Bobby and Barbara Liberman and Caroline Weber without flash.Weber and me with flash.
None of the honored was a familiar name to me. However, they all are now, and after listening to their presenters’ introductions, I want to read them.

The nonagenarian Ms. Fox has a lovely, softly spoken, yet resolute voice making her brief and gracious acceptance. Humility gracing us. J.D. Daniels was given an amusing introduction with John Hodgman admitting his awe in Daniels’ ability to assess his life and his surroundings, in a way that had people laughing. Daniels, however, kept it short and with a terse (and amusing) thank you.
John Hodgman explaining to the audience what he likes about JD Daniels.
JD Daniels making a quick thanks and exit.
The evening opened (after cocktails), as guests were taking their seats at table with the Revel Girls Can Can. This was George Plimpton’s idea (Plimpton died of a heart attack ten years ago after organizing the first Revel and just before it was held.)
The tables were hosted by more than forty writers including John Guare, Richard Ford, Hilton Als, Toni Bentley, Wallace Shawn, Gary Shteyngart, Zadie Smtih, Gay Talese, Hannah Pakula, Richard Price, Darryl Pinckney, Lewis Lapham, Deborah Eisenberg, Lorraine Adams, Claire Messud, Nathaniel Rich, James Salter and more than a score of individuals just as unlike them.

The Paris Review, a quarterly literary magazine celebrating its 60th year, was the creation of Harold Humes, Peter Matthiessen and George Plimpton, established in Paris in 1953. Its Founding Publisher is Sadruddin Aga Khan. Their legacy, under the editorship of Lorin Stein and publisher Antonio Weiss, continues to prosper.
Last night was a kind of convocation underlining the value of the written word. It was a beautiful night, in New York, outside and in.
Jeffrey Eugenides telling the guests about novelist Ottessa Moshfegh.
A web site I read, Jesse’s Café Americain ran this quotation by Barbara Tuchman on Monday that summarizes the essences of last night’s Revel:

“Books are the carriers of civilization. Without books, history is silent, literature dumb, science crippled, thought and speculation at a standstill. Without books, the development of civilization would have been impossible. They are engines of change, windows on the world and lighthouses erected in the sea of time. They are companions, teachers, magicians, bankers of the treasures of the mind. Books are humanity in print.”

Amen; and so it was on these past two days in New York for this reporter.
The guests at last night's Paris Review Spring Revel at Cipriani 42nd Street.
 

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