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Ideal downtime

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A barge anchored on the Hudson River with Palisades Medical Center in New Jersey behind. 1:00 AM. Photo: JH.
Monday, January 13, 2014. Mild, not very cold, sometimes sunny, sometimes overcast with a rainy Saturday in between. The weatherman forecast “heavy” rains and “thunderstorms.” Somewhere else maybe, but not here.  I went to dinner with friends on Friday and Saturday nights — two very popular restaurants which are usually very busy. Both quiet. I asked my cabbies for their estimation of traffic: very quiet.

I like this kind of weekend in New York. It’s ideal downtime: because of the weather you don’t want to go anywhere. I stayed home and read.
All is quiet on Park Avenue.
Which, speaking of. My desk has a makeshift bookshelf consisting of a chair and a reading table, next to it. These are the books of the moment — the ones waiting to be read or to be used for gathering information for something I’m working on at that moment. Plus the ones that I’ve just bought, or the ones that have been sent to me. Or the ones that I’m going to give to people who will enjoy them.
My books of the moment.
I never throw away a book. There’s someone out there who would love it, or find that they love it. Publishers send me quite a few books, probably because I write about books I read. I read the ones that match my interests. And I write about them with the intention of helping to sell a few copies for the author.

I’m not a book reviewer. I do read book reviews, especially in the New York Review of Books and the Financial Times, as well as in the British newspapers when it looks like the subject might interest me. And occasionally in the New York Times. The first two publications are the ones who get me to buy a book.

Click to order You're My Dawg, Dog.
Click to orderThe Need to Say ‘No’.
Click to orderThe Idea of Him.
Click to orderDark Invasion.
Click to orderFlyover Lives.
Click to order You Should Have Known.
Click to order The UP SIDE of DOWN.
Click to order Marie Antoinette’s Head.
Click to order Bernard Berenson; A Life In the Picture Trade.
However, there a lot of books I don’t pick up, often because of the time element. When I was a kid and then a young man, I read novels all the time. Now I rarely read novels and then only classics if I do, or longtime popular novels. That’s mainly because I love reading histories, biographies and memoirs.

I’m taking a long time to make a small point; forgive me. So this pile of books, you see in the picture. This was a pile I was moving from my desktop to a space I was making on the “bookcase” next to the desk.  I happened to notice that of the nine, six of them were written by women.

The top one: “You're My Dawg, Dog,” (“A Lexicon of Dog Terms for People,” is by a man — Donald Friedman. This is one of those books you buy to give to friends. They can read it in the bathroom or on the beach or just before they’re ready to doze off. It’s all those dog terms and what they mean, etc. and it’s very funny. For example: Dog Days, Dog-eyed, Dogface (the opposite of Dollface?), Doggone it, etc.

Then there’s Jill Brooke’s“The Need to Say ‘No’.” This is a little different from Nancy Reagan’s need to say No. This is about the bullies among us and evidently they’re growing in number like the national debt.

“The Idea of Him” (William Morrow, Publishers) is Holly Peterson’s new novel following her best-selling “The Manny.” The “Him” in this novel, I take it, is a Husband. I got a Proof copy — the pub date is early April.

“Dark Invasion; 1915, Germany’s Secret War Against America” (Random House) by Howard Blum also came to me in Proof form. To be published in February. From the sound of the blurb on the back of the book, the story is destined to be a movie produced by and starring Bradley Cooper.

“Flyover Lives” is a memoir by Diane Johnson. Ms. Johnson, whose book was reviewed yesterday in the Sunday New York Times, is a prolific novelist (including “Le Divorce,” Le Mariage,” “L’Affaire,” etc.)

As a little girl Johnson grew up in Moline, Illinois  — that part of America that’s known by media people and their kind as “flyover” country because it’s not on either coast whence the media’s messages originate.

Once upon a time it was called Middle America, or in Reagan’s era, “the heartland.” It’s also the source for much of the best of everything American that we find on those two coasts. Ms. Johnson was one of those imaginative children who dreamed of a bigger life far from her birthplace and actualized it. She divides her time today between San Francisco and Paris.

Then there’s Jean Hanff Korelitz’s new novel, also in Proof form, (pub date: March 18th), “You Should Have Known.” Known what? You know, those things about yourself and your personal relationship (or relationships) and the other  person. You damned fool. (Just kidding, but you catch my drift).

Then there’s Megan McArdle’s“The UP SIDE of DOWN; Why Failing Well is the Key to Success.” In other words, with every cloud there’s a silver lining? I’ll go for that; please God.

Then there’s “Marie Antoinette’s Head; The Royal Hairdresser, The Queen, and the Revolution.” I bought this book at Crawford Doyle a couple of weeks ago because I am a long time 18th Century French fan/freak/aficionado, whatever you want to call it.

I’ve read a number of books on the fin de siècle, the ancien regime, as well as several biographies of the the three Louis (XIV, XV, and XVI), as well as their mistresses and especially one wife, the ill-fated Marie Antoinette.

This one is about her, obviously, but it really is a biography of her hairdresser, one Leonard Autie. A boy from the provinces who came to Paris to make his way — as a hairdresser — Autie serendipitously met M-A shortly after she arrived at Versailles from Vienna to become the Dauphine to the future Louis XVI.

At first he went to work for actresses, having met some right after he arrived with barely a sous in his pocket. His creative ideas brought him immediate clients. One of those clients was as member of the Dauphine’s personal entourage. Leonard was the guy who invented those massive vertical wigs that carried birdcages and all kinds of other items (including jewels, flowers (and even lice) that were the rage of Paris in those early days of the Dauphine.

If you’ve read any of the many wonderful books on that time and those monarchs and their courts, this presents a different purview of the royal court, its intrigues and the profound corruption amongst its elite. Autie was there, even had lodgings in the chateau, but was still, by rank, an outsider. However, hairdressers, if you didn’t know, are some of the greatest confidants of any era (including this one). For some reason when women sit down to have their hair done, it opens up more than one faucet (the other of which can often be a can of worms). It was as true then as it is today.

I’ve asked a couple of “major” hairdressers/ hairstylists why they get so much personal information (aka gossip elsewhere) from their clients. The answer I get is that the process evokes or provokes that reaction in many women. There’s some psychic connect between the coiffeur who tend the hair and the woman who possesses it.

Leonard Autie had that kind of access. He was very discreet with it, and always protected his clientele the best way he knew how (silence). However, as the narrative moves along in “Marie Antoinette’s Head,” as the end of the decade of the 1780s approaches, you begin to feel the dread that eventually overtook their lives. And you know the horrific outcome and how, in retrospect, nothing could have altered its playing out.

The monarchs and their elites could never have imagined what lay in store because it was as diametrically extreme to them as was their world of Versailles to the poor and the peasantry. The rich and powerful were unaware or shielded from that world, even though it was made up of the majority. It never occurred to them that the poverty of the masses would eventually undermine and demolish the lives of the classes. Will Bashor, who is a professor at Franklin University and a member of the Society for French Historical Studies is the author of this biography. (www.willbashor.com)  

And at the bottom of this small tower of books is another biography, a quiet biography of a man who had the wit and the intellect and the creative imagination to take his humble beginnings (a child of Jewish refugees of the Russian tsar’s Pogroms) in Boston to become one of the foremost figures in the 19th and 20th century history of Western Art and its artists, and its great collectors who flourished in the Gilded Age and afterwards: “Bernard Berenson; A Life In the Picture Trade" (Yale University Press) by Rachel Cohen. I picked up this book at Crawford Doyle also, and on a whim because Berenson has always been a shadow character in my limited knowledge of that era and those collections.
Bernard Berenson at 21 and 71.
I took a break from it to devour the “Marie Antoinette’s Head,” and immediately returned after I finished, because it is ultimately a story of personal triumph (rather than monumentally egregious failure), and one earned by the man’s wit, intellect and creative imagination — something profoundly missing from the characters who made up the royal court of Versailles. There's always hope with the resources of the human mind and its creative imagination.

So how was your weekend?
 

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A deep January day

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Christmas trees on the side of the road. 8:00 PM. Photo: JH.
Wednesday, January 15, 2014.  Rainy, not cold day, streets and sidewalks washed, clouds grey like the streets and sidewalks. Temp in the 50s. It’s not so unusual … anymore. I’ve seen several of these winters in the Northeast. When I was a kid growing up I saw the other ones – with heavy snows and deep freeze cold. Overall it’s warmer. Period. Next week, however, so sez the weatherman, we’re gonna get another Arctic Vortex to chill our toes. And cool our heels.

All that aside, it’s the beginning of the third week of the New Year in New York. It’s the night of the Full Moon, what the native Americans called The Wolf Moon– referring to the howling wolf packs outside the natives’ villages on deeply cold, snowy nights at this time of year.
8:30 PM.
It feels like the weather, 21st century version. The IN box of invitations stands at the ready yet almost empty.  Although I can’t say that I mind. Oh, there are people getting together at public events although a lot of that (very large) crowd is now off to the warmer climes and/or snowy slopes where they sun themselves daily and congregate nightly and are a million miles away from the glorious wet and grey pavement of NYC.

Today was about the taxi drivers. The guy who drove me to Michael’s where I had lunch with an old friend (forty years). I often put some conversation out there with the driver when I’m in a cab. I am curious to know Where he came from, Where he lives, How long has he lived in New York. And from there a life unfolds, and a most interesting one – far more interesting than some of the lives I follow on a daily basis, if you’ll pardon my French.

This guy was Egyptian. He left as a young man under Nasser (which was more than 40 years ago). He had engaged in some kind of political protest that led to beatings and jailings and eventually he got himself a tourist visa to London. He had been a young lawyer in Egypt. He eventually came to this country almost thirty years ago. “I’m a New Yorker,” he said.
Getting splashed on Park Avenue.
The cab driver has a hard job in the city no matter what anybody thinks. They are the brunt of people’s impatience, anger, rage, intransigence and overall anxiety that comes at least partly from the pressures of city-living. They didn’t ask for it but it is part of the job description. Furthermore they get it not only from the public but the Taxi Commission and all those other barnacles of commerce that have come into the Life of A Taxi (driver — and passenger) in the past couple of decades.

They feel those pressures too. They also drive in a world where people increasingly (to more than majority) don’t (feel any need to) follow any rules or warnings about their transporting themselves on foot across a busy street. Not only do these pedestrians not follow any rules, many are aggressively insulting. It’s a fool’s paradise, shall we say. And the cabbies are at the center of it.

Yes, I know there are lots of them who have many drawbacks personally, not to mention their driving ability. Although driving ability among the general population is radically unpredictable with self-entitlement the operative motivation. All this in a world where the text has replaced the stroke or heart attack as the most dangerous physical experience behind the wheel and on the road.

Now you know what I think.

So, as I said, I had this guy from Egypt, 27 years in New York, calls himself a New Yorker and he is. Then this afternoon, after lunch with the rain coming down steadily, on the corner of 58th and Fifth by Bergdorf Men and across the way from the Apple Cube, I was lucky to get a cab to take me home.

I didn’t catch his name but he was a big heavyset guy with a newsboy’s cap and narrow, rectangular rimless glasses. A West African man, from Senegal.

He asked me: “Where you going, son?” I told him. I asked him why he called me son since I’m clearly at an age beyond that.  He said: “Because you’re much younger than me ....” Since I couldn’t see his face and he was a heavy set man, I couldn’t tell an age. “How old?” “44.”

Geez. I had break the news to him: I was old enough to be his (old) father. We didn’t get far into his background (he’s been here three years). This was his second visit to New York. He came and returned to Senegal once before. Instead he wanted to ask me some questions: “What month has 28 days?” (people always say: February; wrong: every month. “What state’s name ends with a “K.” I guessed New York (duh) but he told me most New Yorkers think it ends with a “C” (NYC).  Are you still with me?

Anyway he was a most pleasant fellow. Michael’s incidentally was more than rather quiet. Many familiar faces in a very relaxed atmosphere. Today will be back to pandemonium.

Last night I went up to the 92nd Street Y, the great New York cultural center on the Upper East Side. My friend Joan Jakobson was participating in a program -- 92& Glee! Concert.  It’s not of any great interest to me but I thought I’d have a look. Joan is not a professional singer but she loves to sing, and her enthusiasm is contagious. I know the type, being one myself. We like to sing (especially when no one else is around to complain).
Lsst night's 92Y Glee Concert at the 92nd Street Y.
She takes it a step beyond me, she is part of a group called Glad Girls. They appear at charity benefits and private parties. Every now and then.  Back when Joan and I were in school, every one had a girl group. They were antecedents of the girl groups of the '40s and mainly the 1950s. The Boswell Sisters, the Andrew Sisters, the McGuire Sisters, The Chordettes, the Shirelles, the Supremes.

Last night’s Glee! Concert  is the child of Ann Hoyt Wazelle, an opera soprano  (performed the role of Cio-Cio San in “Madame Butterfly” for the St. Louis Opera). She is a member and musical director of Glad Girls.
Director Ann Hoyt Wazelle introduces the singers (while giving a nod to Joan Joan Jakobson) and tells the audience what thay are about to hear.
Everyone’s a volunteer at 92Y Glee. They hold rehearsals regularly and give a couple of concerts to friends a couple of times a year.  Anyone can join. More info at www.92Y.org/Music. Last night’s program included  an ABBA Medley, Unchained Melody, These Boots Are Made For Walking; Hound Dog, Some Nights, Cecilia, Tears in Heaven  and Can’t Get No Satisfaction and You Can’t Always Get What You Want… (No, you can’t.)

There’s a reality TV show in this. Maybe. Who knows? The point is it was a great night up at the 92nd Street Y, and fun for everyone, mainly the singers and their friends. Hoyt-Wazelle despite her operatic stature has the quality of a very good stand-up comedienne as well, and injects the singers with her musical enthusiasm. Not a dull day or grey day at the 92nd Street Y; this is New York.
 

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Around the room

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Looking south from Houston Street towards One World Trade Center. 5:00 PM. Photo: JH.
Thursday, January 16, 2014. Sunny, mild, yesterday in New York with temps in the mid-40s. Terrible traffic. Yesterday, on my way down Fifth Avenue to Michael’s at almost one, there were blocks with only one lane open for traffic (bus lane always forbidden, especially to taxi drivers), plus double parked limousines and delivery trucks next to the parking lane. The upshot is time lost, of course, and much larger than, often double normal fares (sitting in traffic/tick-tick-tick). All provoking the inevitable universal question: WHY?
Early morning fog on the Upper West Side. 8 AM.
Eventually I got to Michael’s which was also mobbed and where I discovered I had a cancelled lunch but was saved by the company of HeadButler’s Jesse Kornbluth and Karen Collins (Mrs. Jesse).

Jesse Kornbluth and Karen Collins out on the town.
At Table One in the bay, Joan Rivers was lunching with Matt Lauer and Annette Roque (Mrs. Lauer). Next to them and to us, Rikki Klieman (Mrs. Bill Bratton) was hosting Kathy Lacey and Shirley Lord who just returned from a cruise on the beautiful blue Danube (according to Strauss).

Joan told us later she is not moving to Los Angeles (as I’ve read in various places). She would have sold her elegant duplex in one of the only Horace Trumbauer designed mansions in New York.

Someone offered her $25 million and she thought: I’d be crazy not to take it. So she was going to. Except the offer fell through, and Joan’s happy to be in her digs. She found that apartment years ago when she was looking at another apartment across the street. Looking out the window she spotted an empty penthouse and asked the realtor about it. She was told it was emptied having been occupied by a woman for many years who finally died there in her 90s.

Joan thought: good vibes. She bought it.
Joan still happy to be in her digs ...
Meanwhile, around the room: Joe Armstrong was back in town, lunching with Michael Berman; Glenn Horowitz was lunching with the great Oscar winning director and screenwriter Robert Benton.

Around the room at Michael's: 1. Donna and Richard Soloway 2. Star Jones 3. Henry Schleiff 4. Bill Bratton and Rikki Klieman 5. Les Hinton 6. Jack Kliger 7. Vin Cipolla 8. Dan Abrams 9. Cliff Robbins 10. Karl Spangenberg.
Across the aisle, Donna and Richard Soloway were lunching with Richard Johnson and Bill McCuddy; next door, Stan Shuman; next to him, Hearst Magazine president David Carey; Marie Claire’s Ann Fulenwider lunching with Diane Clehane; Estee Lauder marketing vp, Alexandra Trower; Klaus Biesenbach, director of MoMA’s PS1 in Queens; United Stations Radio’s Nick Verbitsky; Star Jones with Marie Claire publisher Nancy Berger Cardone and her associate Brent Allen; Henry Schleiff of Discovery; Randy Jones of Patriarch Partner with publc relations executive Dan Scheffey.

Nearby: Ralph Destino Sr.; Stu Zakim of Bridge Strategic Communications; Jim Smith of Niche Media; Les Hinton, British-American journalist and former CEO of Dow-Jones; Municipal Arts Society’s Vin Cipolla with PR exec Lisa Linden; attorney Richard DeScherer; producer Joan Gelman with Joan Hamburg; Gus Wenner, son of Jann; Jack Kliger of TV Guide with Hearst Chair Emeritus, Susan Blond, sporting a new aui naturel coif; Dan Abrams with Vicky Ward; John Paton of El Diario; Cliff Robbins (Blue Harbor Group); Barry Frey of Digital Place-Based Advertising; Jim Casella of Case Interactive Media; Karl Spangenberg of Medialink; Krishan Bhatia of NBC.

Catching up. This past Monday night Liz Goldwyn, Karen Elson and Tonne Goodman of Vintage Vanguard hosted a cocktail and silent auction for the benefit of Dress For Success at the Jane Ballroom on 113 Jane Street. For the guests’ pleasure, 20 designers including Tory Burch, Marc Jacobs, Marchesa, Zac Posen, Thakoon, Eddie Borgo, Tabitha Simmons, Creatures of the Wind, re-worked 20 vintage pieces from the Goldwyn-Elson vintage collections.
The scene at the Jane Ballroom to benefit Dress for Success.
20 designers re-worked 20 vintage pieces from the Goldwyn-Elson vintage collections.
Ms. Elson also performed, as did DJ Tennessee Thomas.

Among those attending were Karlie Kloss, Zac Posen, Lauren Santo Domingo, Shane Glabler and Christopher Peters, Erin Beatty, Zani Gukgelmann, Derek Blasberg, Julie Macklowe, Natalie Joos, Albertus Swanepjoel, Deborah Nicodemus and Joi Gordon, CEO of Dress for Success Worldwide. www.dressforsuccess.org.
Karen Elson, DJ Tennessee Thomas, and Liz Goldwyn.
Marina Rust.Joi Gordon.Cindy Weber Cleary.
Indre Rockefeller.Karla Martinez and Rory Hermelee.Tonne Goodman.
Meredith Melling Burke and Valerie Boster.Shane Gabier and Chris Peters.
Meredith Melling Burke, Lauren Santo Domingo, Indre Rockefeller, Valerie Boster, and Hayley Bloomingdale.
Tennessee Thomas.Amy Astley.
Ann Dexter Jones.Erin Beatty.Zani Gugelmann.
Hamish Bowles, Karen Elson, Tonne Goodman, and Liz Goldwyn.
Karen Elson, Hamish Bowles, and Liz Goldwyn.Elizabeth Kurpis and Julia Loomis.
Karlie Kloss, Derek Blasberg, Karen Elson, and Liz Goldwyn.
Zac Posen.Jenke-Ahmed Tailly and Stephanie LaCava.Julie Macklowe.
Dr. Lisa Airan.Deborah Nicodemus and Lauren Santo Domingo.
Sarah Sophie Flicker, Lauren Santo Domingo, Liz Goldwyn, Zac Posen, Karen Elson, and Tennessee Thomas.
Karen Elson and Liz Goldwyn.
Also, down in Palm Beach in the Grand Ballroom at Mar-a-Lago, last Saturday night Susan B. Komen Foundation of South Florida hosted their Perfect Pink Gala where they raised $1.5 million. Our friend Christopher Walling donated an emerald brooch of his design that brought $30,000 at the auction.
Christopher Walling's emerald brooch which fetched $30,000 at the auction.
 

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A month beyond the shortest day of the year

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Sunset as seen from Central Park West through Central Park and towards Fifth Avenue. 5:00 PM. Photo: JH.
Monday, January 20, 2014. Cold and mild and sunny over the weekend in New York. The weatherman keeps forecasting much colder weather coming out way.

A month beyond the shortest day of the year. I have a friend who hates the winter for the darkness that comes so early – before five in the afternoon at the Winter Solstice. It depresses him. I never thought of it that way but I can see what he means. Ever since we had that conversation I have been more conscious of the changing light and time in our days.
Friday night along the East River looking east to to Roosevelt Island.
Looking across to Roosevelt Island to the south. The red towers are the Con Ed smokestacks.
It was cold yesterday late afternoon when I went out on the terrace to see what the street looked like. I’m fascinated with that last of sunset that you see between the buildings to the southwest. I love the emerging city lights buried in the tall black profiles of the apartment buildings along the avenue and beyond. The pink of the sunset almost seems to have set a glow on the roadway below. Each day the light will last a little longer and soon we’ll begin to anticipate the Spring and look for the slightest signs. Some signs will be in that sunset.
Sunday night sunset on East End Avenue, 5:30 p.m., local temperature 36 degrees (RealFeel 28).
Today is Martin Luther King, Jr. Day, a Federal holiday President Reagan signed into existence thirty years ago on November 2, 1983. There was vocal opposition to the proposal for a Federal holiday when it was first presented in 1979, and a few years passed before it became a reality. The day marks the “official” birthday of Dr. King although his actual birthday was January 15. He was thirty-nine years old when he was assassinated on April 4, 1968 in Memphis, Tennessee.
President Ronald Reagan signs legislation to create a federal holiday honoring Martin Luther King, Jr. in the Rose Garden of the White House on November 2, 1983. (by National Archives).
I was in high school in Massachusetts when Martin Luther King came to national attention in what became his campaign for Civil Rights. The America I grew up in had few if any people of color in proximity of the majority of Americans living in small towns and villages. I don’t recall seeing even one person of color  in the town where I grew up (which doesn’t mean there wasn’t anyone). There was a black population in nearby Springfield which was a larger city. The only people of color everyone knew were either athletes, actors or entertainers along with writers James Baldwin and Ralph Ellison

Rosa Parks sits in the front of a bus in Montgomery, Ala., in 1956 after the U.S. Supreme Court ruled segregation illegal on the city's bus system.
Rosa Parks and Dr. King.
We Northerners read about Segregation in Little Rock and other Southern towns. A major part of the American population didn’t consider it their problem. On December 1, 1955, Rosa Parks riding on a bus in Montgomery, Alabama refused to give up her seat in the colored section to a white passenger.  She was arrested forthwith for civil disobedience. There were other women before her who had defied the segregation “law” of the state and had been arrested, but Parks was working for the NAACP at the time, and it was decided she was the perfect candidate to see through a court challenge. They were right.

These were very exciting times in retrospect., although very few ever could have imagined that changes in not only laws but consciousness that have steadily taken place over the past half century since that day in Montgomery, Alabama. Parks’ defiance led to a bus boycott that became a symbol of demonstrations and challenges that not only changed the laws but changed American society and culture forever.

Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. had already joined the movement and was to become its spokesman and its symbol. The American people were quite used to segregation and fell into it as if by rote without giving it a thought. Dr. King’s steadfast leadership and public speaking, however, slowly but decisively changed that forever.

In his early days where he was already being chased and/or under surveillance by police and other law enforcement, the general population regarded him as an upstart and even a troublemaker. Communist was a label frequently cast upon his reputation, although it wasn’t true.  But he was a man who by his nature could seize victory from the jaws of defeat and demonstrate that reality to others. As the protesting grew more and more intense, Dr. King preached non-violence, love and understanding.

By the time he made his famous (and last) “I've been to the mountaintop…” speech on April 3, 1968, the public consciousness had begun to change. It reflected the revolutionary atmosphere of the times as the War in Viet Nam had kept escalating while growing less and less popular with the American public.
This was a movement of many figures, personalities and leaders, many of whom were women. But Martin Luther King Jr. stood at the forefront of leadership with his words, his solemn commitment and his great humanity. Although it is a tribute that he grew to be revered by millions of people of all ethnicities across the world, his presence and persistence showed us all the way to a hope, a dream, for a better life for all.

Those hopes, that dream, have yet to be fully realized but its roots are now reality. Two generations of Americans have grown up with a far different attitude and view of Civil Rights for all. I believe it was Dr. King who planted the seeds of the changes that have flourished. He paid for that with his life but what he achieved was for all life forever after. It is impossible not to think that had he lived into middle age he could have accomplished so much more for all of us. Nevertheless, his memory is still powerful enough to inspire and to acknowledge.
Thinking about him last night, I was reminded of Adela Rogers St. John, an entertainment journalist for the Hearst newspapers back with W.R. was still in charge. St. John covered the world of show business as a reporter, a critic and a columnist. She’d grown up in San Francisco in the early part of the 20th century when it was still a (big) town grown out of the oceanside community of Yerba Buena. Her father was a hardscrabble émigré  who had followed the Gold Rush to that city by the Bay. Working for Hearst covering the crazy world of movies and theatre, iin the first half of the 20th century, St. John saw it all and wrote about a lot of it.

She lived well into her 90s when she announced publicly that she was about to write a memoir. Her third. When asked what more she had to say to the public. Her response was immediate: she wanted to tell the public that "99% of the people are much better than they think they are," and to know it was to encourage it.

That was Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.’s message, repeated over and over and over, rewarding many of us and changing our world forever.
 

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Snow Day

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The snow down below. 1:45 PM. Photo: JH.
Wednesday, January 22, 2014. It snowed yesterday in New York, from about ten in the morning until ten at night. It was predicted and unlike a lot of the dramatic weather predictions we get here, this one turned out to be very accurate.

Our NYSD contributor Blair Sabol who lives in Scottsdale, Arizona (although she’s lived a lot of her life, since childhood in the East – namely Philadelphia and New York) and is not a fan of Northeastern winters. (It was 80 degrees in Scottsdale yesterday.)

I sent her this email early yesterday afternoon with this photo I took of East End Avenue looking north with the message below:
“You must admit you’d rather not .... Be here!” She wrote back: “This is your dream come true. Wait till tomorrow when it is 4 degrees .... Throw some snowballs for me!”
It’s true. I left the house today only to get food for my lunch and dinner, and to take the dogs out. When I first went out about 11 am it was really coming down, and traffic on the avenue was moving slowly (and the two schools – Chapin and Brearley – had school buses waiting for the students to be discharged). It was impossible to find a vacant taxi, so I walked the ten city block lengths over to Third Avenue to get my grub and walked back with it.

Snowdays still remind me of “No School” days which were always a thrill when I was a kid, so it was a dream come true. So I treated it like a No School, No Nothing day – reading the papers, reading my favorite blogs, plus the new New Yorker, the new New York Review of Books, and otherwise getting up from my desk every few minutes to take more pictures of the snow falling. Not very exciting to report, I know. And the photos I got were not nearly as exciting as seeing it. First of all the camera doesn’t pick up those trillions of snowflakes that excite and delight the kid.
2:30 p.m. on the corner of 83rd and East End, School buses waiting for the students to board, the US Mail truck delivering.
A man and his dog (who was very excited about the snow).
Nevertheless the roadways were pristine and creaking white and snowpacked. JH’s mother sent an email reporting that she saw a  city bus sliding into a 180 reversal on Madison Avenue in the 70s. It was rough going. I called Michael’s. They were open but they were very quiet -- so there were a lot of No School days around town.

It was also very cold, in the low teens. The dogs can’t take the “salt” they put on the pavement – it burns their paws. So I carried them out of rear of the building right onto the unsalted sidewalk that leads to the Promenade on the riverside. The snow was about six inches deep by two p.m., and very powdery. They loved it, and did what they had to do (but were soon ready to get back inside).

At midnight, as I write this, the snow has stopped. The white of the land under yellow street lights makes everything bright and warm to look at from inside my warm rooms. However, the weatherman predicts frigid temperatures with RealFeel below zero. The avenue is quiet now, the road is plowed, some of the sidewalks have been cleared, and the day is done.
3:30 p.m., still snowing.
The avenue at 4:30 p.m. and then at midnight, snowfall over and the neighborhood is quiet and bright.
View at midnight to the north. It is up at the north end of the avenue where our new Mayor and his family are in residence.
Here's what JH saw on the Upper West Side ...
 

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Seeing what you could see

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Posing on the Great Lawn in Central Park. 2:05 PM. Photo: JH.
Thursday, January 23, 2014. Sun out, roads wet and with slushy curbs, and very very cold -- the kind where you don’t want to stay out any longer than you have to. It’s winter in New York and most of the time not pretty. Except maybe during and after a storm. The weatherman has predicted maybe another one coming with, as they call them, an “Alberta Clipper.”  More cold.

I missed Michael’s lunch yesterday and a little birdie told me I wasn’t the only one. I wasn’t surprised. Baby, it’s cold outside.

JH was out there with his camera seeing what you could see after the storm subsided Tuesday night. Amazingly, for a steady twelve hour storm Manhattan, at least in the Upper East and West Sides, was snow covered but not deep or drifting.
Although it’s not so cold down in Palm Beach, as you might surmise, where this month has replaced New York for the most social events possible. You can be out every night there in that little jewelbox of a town. For example, two Fridays ago, Ginny Burke, Anita Michaels and Hillie Mahoney chaired a black tie dinner dance at the Breakers, raising money for Hospice of Palm Beach County, which treats several hundred people daily in the Palm Beach area. The evening featured an Oscar de la Renta fashion show which was sponsored by Saks. They raised several hundred thousand dollars for Hospice.
Oscar de la Renta fashion show ...
In the ballroom which was festooning with flowers: Regina and Rainer Greven, the Fred Algers, Sam Michaels, Bill Diamond and Regine Traulsen, former mayor Lesly Smith, Dr. James Walsh, Lore Dodge, Talbot Maxey, Ken Karakul, Audrey and Martin Gruss, Jim Mitchell, Dr. Annette Rickel, Fern Tailer de Narvaez, Jim Clark, Helena and Roman Martinez, Charlene and Jimmy Nederlander, Bob Nederlander and Pat Cook.
Ginny Burke and Scott Snyder.
Then Wednesday, a week ago, Maureen Donnell opened her magnificent house on the ocean for a black tie dinner for the major donors to the Four Arts. The Four Arts dance will be held on February 21. This was kind of the Palm Beach version of a kick-off to a benefit party (in New York they do it in retail shops who also provide the champagne and a nice donation).

There were forty attending including former Ambassador Edward Elson and his wife Susie, Mary and Marvin Davidson, Peggy and Dudley Moore, Edie Dixon, Eileen and Brian Burns, Pamela Fiori, Ann and Charles Johnson, along with chair of the board of Four Arts, Patrick Henry and his wife Heather, and ... the internally famous fashion designer Naeem Khan (with a fashion show of his collection shown at Neiman Marcus just before the dinner).
Maureen Donnell and Naeem Kahn.
And then two days later Emilia Fanjul hosted her annual dinner at Café Boulud at the Brazilian Court. The theme was “A Night of Great Expectations.” Emilia, who started this almost ten years ago to raise funds and awareness for the Everglades Preparatory Academy and Glades Academy Charter Schools, has done it all with Great Expectations -- and she’s instilled it in many others. She has now built two charter schools: the Glades Academy Elementary School, and the Everglades Preparatory Academy. Both the elementary school and the high school have been lauded and highly rated by state agencies for their work with "High Risk children and teenagers."

The entire evening was underwritten by Emilia's husband, Pepe Fanjul and the Dinner Sponsors were Café Boulud, Stubbs and Wooten and Stationers on Sunrise. They even had the ever-ebullient  auctioneer to the philanthropists, Sotheby’s Executive VP, Jamie Niven down from New York, conducting the auction. It almost killed him to have to leave ole Mannahatta in January, but he managed to pull through like a real sport.

Faces in the glamorous crowd sparkling in the Brazilian Court garden: Lillian Fanjul Azqueta, Annette Tapert Allen, Robin Wheeler Azquuetea, Whitney Bylin, Lourdes Fanjul, Grace Meigher, Helena Martinez, Talbot Maxey, Pauline Pitt, Mimi McMakin, Kate Gubelmann– all of whom helped their friend Emilia make it what some say is the most glamorous evening and best benefit  of the entire season. Which is saying something. This seems to be the consensus at the party every year.

So now you know.
Emilia and Jose Pepe Fanjul with Emilia Pfeifler
Meanwhile back up in ole Mannahatta, lets see, whadda we got? Well, if you were thinking of getting away at sea down where the balmy breezes blow, last night in New York Carnival Cruise was the host of the moment with a private concert by Jennifer Hudson. Ms. Hudson was there to celebrate Carnival’s new LIVE 2014 Concert Series. Eight ships featuring concerts by Chicago, Daughtry Foreigner, Jewel, Kansas, Lady Antebellum, LeAnn Rimes, Martina McBride, Olivia Newton-John, REO Speedwagon, STYX, Trace Adkins, and Miss Hudson, in the ports of Cozumel, Mexico, Nassau, the Bahamas, Catalina in California. Beats the New York weather twice over.

Otherwise it's in the mid-Winter mode. A friend of mine calls January the Real Last Month of the old year, which is how it feels to many of us. I always have to remind myself that January always seems like the darkest month of the year while February brings the hearts and the box of chocolates, rain, sleet or snow (or Arctic Vortex); so go for it.
Jennifer Hudson entertaining the guests at the launch event of Carnival LIVE Concert Series at The Cutting Room Music Venue on 44 East 32nd Street, yesterday in New York.
Meanwhle out there in sunny LA, these little buggers who live with Nancy Stoddart don't know what all the fuss about the weather is about ...
 

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Getting Around

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Exiting the Metropolitan Opera House. 11:20 PM. Photo: JH.
January 24, 2014. It was sunny and bright and very cold, yesterday in New York. I finally bought one of those woolen knitted caps to cover my head. Ten bucks, on the corner of 56th Street and Fifth Avenue by the Abercrombie & Fitch store.

It still wasn’t weather to go out in if you don’t have to, because getting around New York is more difficult than ever, no matter the weather. It is even more difficult because the snowplows cannot accommodate many details of that new street design provided by the Bloomberg Administration.  So there was a bigger mess after Tuesday’s snowstorm. The new mayor de Blasio is evidently being blamed for this in the press but the aforementioned street design is a complete disaster for New Yorkers who want to get around in a taxi/car. Evidently they never anticipated the complications that would arise from something like a snowstorm.
Leftover snow up above.
However, I was happy to venture out to Michael’s to lunch with an old friend whom I hadn’t seen in a couple of months. He and I always have fierce (more on my part, not his) conversations about the economy, the financial world, the political world and society and culture. Sounds very intellectual in the recounting. It’s not. It’s often as pedestrian as “is that a fly in my soup?”

However, they lead all over the place, provide amazement, shock, awe not to mention laughter. We’re both students of irony. My friend shares many of my thoughts and inteterest but comes to the subjects with a somewhat more bemused point of view. Not a bad idea, as Shakespeare has demonstrated best for the past half millennium.

The thing about life in New York is that you’re exposed to all the elements of nature and man including the cultural, political and financial — en masse. Remember, so many of the players, those who inhabit the corridors and the gardens of power in America, and often in the world, are right here before your very eyes (sometimes) and ears (also sometimes), on the street, in some restaurant, at some club, some charity gala, some dinner table. The Degree of Separation between you and half the world is often no more than two or three degrees, at most.
The schmutz underfoot.
Michael’s was back to its old busy self. The coatroom was jammed with heavy winter coats and scarves. So the town’s back out again. Former police commissioner Ray Kelly was lunching with another man at Table one. Ralph Lauren was at the corner table. The ubiquitous Micky Ateyeh was lunching with Ruth Shuman, the lady who created Publicolor and got thousands of New York kids to paint the interiors of their schools (to freshen and liven them up).

The Publicolor projects introduce many young people to the pleasure of commitment and personal accomplishment, That in turn has motivated many of these young people to set their sights higher than their socio-economic environments might provide. It’s a heroine’s work in my book.
Ruth Shuman at home (see NYSD House).
Today is also the birthday of another old friend of mine, Peter Rogers. A boy from Hattiesburg, Mississippi who had an after-school job as a window display designer in the local department store when he was in high school. The store’s owner was so impressed with the boy’s creativity that he advised the him not to go to college but to go to New York and get into the advertising business.

And so the boy did. He ended up owning his own agency. Perhaps his most famous advertising campaign is the “What Becomes a Legend Most…” for Blackgama furs. All those famous glamour girls were Peter’s choices. Some of them, like Joan Crawford, Claudette Colbert, and Ethel Merman became good, close friends.

Peter Rogers with two of his great friends, Liz Smith and the late, great, much missed Ann Richards.
But Peter’s life has been blessed with many many good friends. He and Liz Smith have been best friends since the 50s and are still in frequent communication. He’s not one to suffer fools (unless they’re really good at it — although eventually he gets the message), but he’s very outspoken in terms of expressing his likes and dislikes — and boy, he has ‘em. That’s his special charm. That and his inimitable critical opinions about people, places and things. He loves dogs too.

A few years ago after a half century as a New Yorker and man about town, he upped and sold his apartment and his fabulous house that he designed for himself in Litchfield County, and moved to New Orleans. Why New Orleans? Well, because when he was a kid, that was “the city” that he went to get his fix of feeling like a grownup. And in some ways, Peter’s never grown up. Just kidding, of course. Sort of.

Anyway, today marks the end of the eighth decade of this fabulous life the boy’s had. And still living like a prince down there in the French Quarter. So Happy Birthday Peter from all those of us who know you and like you, even love you! The Legend who became the Most.

Peter shares his birthday with such immortals as Emperor Hadrian, John Vanbrugh, the great British architect who designed Blenheim Palace, Frederick the GreatEdith Wharton, not to mention Oral Roberts (remember him?), Maria Tallchief, and John Belushi.  And many others too numerous to mention.
The birthday boy Peter Rogers at his former Litchfield County home (see NYSD House).
Last night was a busy one in New York. I started out at the Park Avenue Armory where the Winter Antiques Show was celebrating its 60th season with a gala benefit for East Side House Settlement. This is always a beautiful evening, and the benefit is well-attended. There was a big crowd and the dealers’ stalls are full of wonderful treasures.

I go to these benefit evenings with the primary objective of getting some photos of New Yorkers out at the show. And to cover it for the readers to see. But this year the aisles were so packed with guests that I focused on the stalls.

Here’s a taste of what and whom I saw, we’ll be running a lot more on Monday’s NYSD. It’s a perfect weekend visit if you’re in town. There’s so much to see, so many extraordinary objects, paintings, furniture, jewelry, alluringly displayed. You can even have a perfect  small lunch and make a day of it. In the warmth.
A very crowded aisle last night at the opening preview of the 60th Winter Antiques Show at the Park Avenue Armory.
One of the bars at the show last night.And at one of the hors d'oeuvres tables.
Iris Apfel.Brian Stewart and Stephanie Krieger.
The special exhibition from the Peabody Essex Museum, at the entrance to the Winter Antiques Show
Fom the Peabody Essex Museum.
Nathaniel Hawthorne by Charles Osgood at the Peabody Essex Museum exhibition.Peter Finer, London, England.
Bruce Shostak and Craig Fitt.
Keith Scott.
Kentshire, New York, NY.
Sheila Kotur.Sheila's brooch.
Frank and Barbara Pollack American Antiques & Art, Highland Park, IL.
Suzanne Courcier • Robert W. Wilkins, Yarmouth Port, MA.
Jo Hallingby and Larry Kaiser.Kathy Sloane.
Diamond, emerald and pearl necklace at A La Vieille Russie.
I left the Winter Antiques Show and got a cab going south on Park Avenue and went over to Sutton Place where Diane and Stephen Volk were hosting a reception for our new Police Commissioner Bill Bratton and his wife Rikki Klieman.

Commissioner Bratton and his wife Rikki Klieman last night at a reception given for them by Diane and Stephan Volk at their Sutton Place apartment.
Still friends: Leonard Lauder and Linda Johnson.
I got there just as the Brattons were speaking to the guests about his job in the city and her commitments to supporting her husband by getting involved in projects assisting children, particularly working with the Police Athletic League. There is a uniqueness in their marriage partnership because they have both had long professional careers in law and law enforcement. As a couple you can see they’re a team, but both are by their professional ethos, separate. Rikki Klieman’s commitment to the PAL exemplifies it.

I met another old friend, Beth Rudin DeWoody (we made plans in advance) there and afterwards we went up to Sette Mezzo for dinner. One the lips of many of yesterday was the story in New York Post  by Kirsten Fleming about Leonard Lauder who is regarded by not a few as the hottest catch in town. Mr. Lauder, who was widowed two and a half years ago on the death of his wife Evelyn. Last Fall it looked as if there would be a new Mrs. Lauder in the person of Linda Johnson, the executive director of the Brooklyn Public Library.

That relationship didn’t quite make it and it was announced publicly last December that the couple had decided not to tie the knot.

Meanwhile, last night at Sette, several people mentioned the item to me (there was a quote by me in it) and discussed what they thought. This is how New York is like the neighborhood in a small town. There was speculation on the what’s and why’s of the Lauder-Johnson relationship. The same way we speculate on the life of stars whom we basically know nothing about. Nevertheless it provides that grist for the pleasure of the mindless mill we all know and love. Coincidentally, and again, this is what I mean about the neighborhood, when Beth and I were leaving the restaurant, Linda Johnson herself was dining with three friends at a table by the entrance.
The cookies, which never last long, at Sette Mezzo.
This week is a real merry-go round of art and antique fairs. Wednesday night, The METRO Show, opened at the Metropolitan Pavilion in Chelsea. Now in its 3rd year, this show packs a visual punch with a dazzling array of fine and decorative arts. From ethnographic to abstract art, from outsider to Pop Art, folk art to decorative arts, the fair's message is one of inclusion — that great ideas, great art and great design are best when presented creatively side by side in an integrated fashion. This year they’re featuring METRO Curates, where each dealer is presenting individual exhibitions or single-themed presentations based on their specialties.

Those who braved the frigid temps to check out the goods were Jerry Lauren, John and Joan Schorsch, Stephen Earle, Mark Lurie, Barbara and John Wilkerson, Arlie Sulka, Ellie Cullman, Geoffrey Bradfield, Roric Tobin, Justin Concannon, Dennis Rolland, Harry Heissmann, Sandra Nunnerley, Jeremy Broderick, Ronald Brick, Michael Hill, Caroline Sollis, Eide Rita, Robert Young, Elle Shushan, Hrag Vartanian Robin Cembalest, Veken Gueyikian, Warren Weitman and Eve Reid, Vyna St. Phard, Erica Raphael, Mark Lyman, Michael Franks, Ann Mezko, Carol Pulitzer, Clinton Howell, Ann Harris, Caroline Kerrigan Lerch, Shawn Henderson, and the ubiquitous curateor of the art, antiques and the antiquaires, Wendy Moonan.
Carl Hammer, Amy Finkel ,Tim Hill, Mark Lyman ,Sam Herrup Caroline Kerrigan Lerch, and Frank Maresca.
Beck and Bo Alexander.
Vyna St Phard.
Amanda Schneider and Bo Joseph.
Jerry Lauren.
Michael Malce and Jolie Kelter.
Michael Franks, Matti Franks, and Jette Franks.
Barbara and John Wilkerson.
Josyane and Robert Young.
Caroline White, Ellie Cullman, and Sarah Depalo.
Stephen Earle.
Caroline Kerrigan Lerch and Carol Pulitzer.
Eide Rita, Carol Sollis, Ronald Brick, and Michael Hill.
Michael Hill, Barbara Ostrom, and Ronald Brick.
Patricia Call.
Shawn Henderson, Simone Joseph, and Robert Greene.
Erik Thomsen and Cornelia Thomsen.
Charles Snider and Kate Westfall.
Robert Frank and Robin Jaffee Frank.
Jennifer Norton and Betsy Pochoda.
Mark Schwarz and William Martini.
Michael Lackwood and Paris Pickett.
Dennis Rolland.
Ann Harris and Clinton Howell.
Sandra Nunnerley and Jeremy Broderick.
John Eason and Damon Crain.
Roric Tobin, Geoffrey Bradfield, and Justin Concannon.
Ellen Marsteller and Ellen Parker.
Robert Greenberg, Marie Samuels, and Neville Wisdom.
Josh Lowenfels.

Photographs by Annie Watt (Metro)

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Remembering my favorite Churchill

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New Years, 1980. Lady Sarah Spencer Churchill surveying her lair in the hills above Montego Bay, Jamaica, New Years 1980.
Monday, January 27, 2014. Cold winter weekend. Those overcast grey winter days. I went to get a haircut at Jean Louis David on 75th and Broadway. I’ve been going there since I came back from Los Angeles in 1992. In that time, I’ve had only two haircutters. A young Russian guy who went out on his own, and since then, Luydmilla (I’m not certain of the spelling), also Russian. Both excellent.

I’m telling you all this in order to explain the unremarkable photo I took from the Viand restaurant where I went to get something to eat while waiting my turn with Luydmilla.

It had just started to snow again, while I waiting for my grilled ham and cheese. The streets were wet and cold and this was Broadway, New York on a Saturday afternoon about four. The block we’re looking at is also one of the busiest in the area because of those two stores, Fairway and Citarella, both very good and reasonable (or as reasonable as anything can be now). See all the people. No. The day felt like that too.
However the Sun came out on Sunday just long enough to do some more melting and put us back in movement. I also had no idea what I was going to do for a Diary today. It’s been quiet (which is fine with me) but quiet isn’t that readable if you catch my drift. Then, fate knocked.

I got an email inquiring about Lady Sarah Churchill and a book she was working on when she died fifteen years ago this year. NYSD readers may recall that Sarah was a friend who at an important moment in my life as a writer, made a big difference. Looking through the archives, I found a couple of Diaries that I’d written about her, after her death.

After re-reading them, so much came back to mind. In 1978, I’d decided to move my life to Los Angeles and embark on a life as a writer professionally. I’d sold a small business I had in Westchester and packed up my belongings and with my dog and five cats, moved West.
A corner of the living room in "Content," Lady Sarah's Jamaican villa overlooking Montego, a watercolor by Bob Schulenberg. The photograph in the frame was in reality of Elizabeth, the Queen Mother, inscribed to Lady Sarah after the Queen Mother's visit to "Content."
A couple of weeks before my departure, some friends of mine gave me a going away present in the form of a “reading” by Dezia Restivo here in New York who is a numerologist and reads the Tarot. I knew nothing about either talents except what everyone knows: the future is in their hands, or head.

Dezia is an English lady with a sunny and gregarious personality, and she likes people. So she read my cards and did my numbers. As she looked at the  cards spread out before her, referring to the move I was about to make, she said: “You’re going to meet a woman who is royalty, or like royalty. And she is wearing rose colored glasses and has houses on three oceans ...”

Well, that sounded pretty exotic, or more like an opening for an adventure novel and not the life of this New England boy.

But Dezia was right. About six months later, now living in Los Angeles, I met Sarah. That first night, she was in a reception line, a tall, imposing presence, blonde and well coiffed wearing rose colored glasses. She was not “royal,” she had presence we imagine a royal might have (and rarely do, just like the rest of us). More than the tint of her glasses, they gave her that European woman appearance which suggests mystery somewhere in there.

Sarah and Sparky, her Jack Russell, Beverly Hills, Christmas 1980.
It so happened, that at that moment in her life she did indeed have three houses – Greece, Jamaica, and Los Angeles – all of which overlooked an ocean.

Anyway, all of this came back from that email inquiring about Sarah, and so I decided to share this since it’s a helluva lot more interesting than what’s going on in New York on these cold winter weekend days at the end of January ...

Sarah and I met in Los Angeles in the late 70s, through a mutual friend, Luis Estevez. I'd recently moved there and Sarah had moved there only a couple years before. Coincidentally, her last apartment in New York from which she moved West, was across the avenue from where I live now.

At the time we met she was about to separate (unwillingly) from her third husband whom she'd been married to for thirteen years. She was in her mid-fifties and very distressed about his leaving. I was in my late thirties and embarking on a brand new life/career in a new place and a new world. We were in not dissimilar states of mind, anxiously anticipating the future. We became fast friends, so much so that Sarah saw possibilities of replacing her departing husband with a new one: me. I squelched that idea immediately but our friendship grew intensely nevertheless.

We were first introduced at a black tie charity gala, funnily enough (a very rare experience for me in those days; very). There were roulette tables where chips were obtained by donation to the cause. I was very lucky that night and raking it in. Sarah, standing right next to me, was soon wiped out. Seeing her situation, I pushed half my chips over to her. This mere moment impressed her mightily, I later learned. Sarah was used to being on the giving/donor side to the point that it never occurred to her that someone might give her something (wills and last testaments notwithstanding).

Our relationship was purely platonic although it took on spousal dimensions in a variety of ways. In Beverly Hills, those dimensions resembled in some ways the lives in Billy Wilder's"Sunset Boulevard," the ultimate story of Hollywood.

I, the struggling writer looking to launch a career; she, the British aristocrat (American citizen), Vanderbilt heiress, multi-married, and a big liver of life. She hatched an idea for us: she wanted to write a memoir. She would need a ghostwriter.
Sparky a/k/a Boyzie on the terrace of Sarah's house on Lloydcrest Drive in Beverly Hills.
We put together a first chapter and outline and Marianne Strong, the literary agent here in New York got us a deal. What a break for me! Then Sarah reneged. She suddenly wasn't sure she wanted to write a "life" story. She decided she'd rather write a cookbook. She was an enthusiastic cook and high on the improv side and broad on details (her most famous dish was a salmon garnished and wrapped in aluminum foil and run through one full cycle in the dishwasher).

So the book never got written. She got divorced. She sold her house in Beverly Hills and moved back East to Florida and Connecticut. She had a very restless side although she gave it a form. She liked moving, traveling. Two or three weeks in one place was enough for Sarah. For much of her life she had more than one residence, sometimes three or four in different places. This required her constant attention and a handy excuse when needed for her traveling hither and yon.

In the 1960s and 70s she was a frequent guest of Aristotle Onassis on his Christina. It was in Grecian waters that she met her third (and last) husband, a very handsome Greek. He was 22 and she was 44. Love in the afternoon. She built a big house on the Peloponnese for them. Years later he tried dismantling as much of it as possible when he couldn't get it in a divorce settlement, right down to the doorknobs off the doors. She put it back together and later sold it to a rich Arab.

Lady Sarah Consuelo Spencer-Churchill.This sketch of Sarah in repose captures a side that was rarely seen by most who came in contact with her. Illustration by Bob Schulenberg.
By the 1990s Sarah was living in Old Lyme, Connecticut, divested entirely of her multi-residences, including Jamaica, and continuing to travel frequently either to new places of to see friends and family. If she weren't traveling, she was entertaining often with a houseful of guests. To be a guest of hers was to be in her life. I felt very close to her, intimately close to her, the way one feels with a sibling or a mate.

However, it may be that many people felt very close to Sarah. It was a big personality, all-encompassing, charming, pugilistic; a gusto of Churchillian karma. To be around it was to know it. And she shared everything. She helped herself to it also, but nothing material ever had a value greater than sharing for her. She loved dogs. Jack Russells. Abounding.

The following was written shortly after her unexpected death shortly before her 78th birthday. The house in Old Lyme needed to be painted. Sarah called around for estimates. The lowest one she got was $8000. Ridiculous in her mind. "Maureen and I can do it," she said to friends.

Maureen was the young Jamaican housekeeper. Sarah bought her a condo and got her two small children into the country so they could live with their mother. The two women started the job by taking down all the shutters, scraping them down and applying a new coat of paint. It wasn't a tiny house. There were quite a few shutters. They had just finished the shutters a few days before Sarah went in for her surgery. She never came out.

Maureen was very upset by Sarah's death. "It wasn't her time!" she insisted. "She had much much more to do." Ironically, Maureen was killed instantly in an automobile accident only a little more than a year later.
Originally published May 16, 2001: She was attracted to the Caribbean when she reached majority (and was married) because she was allowed to spend the income from her small trust in pounds, but not in dollars. Her father, the duke of Marlborough, and so many other British friends, including Noël Coward, as well as American friends, went to Jamaica. She was also attracted to the island culture, and she visited often.

Sarah loved Jamaica. Her heart was really there, more than anyplace else, for most of her life. She loved Content, her hillside estate above the village of Reading, outside Montego. The property had originally been a fort built in 1732. By the 1960s, Montego Bay, with Round Hill and Tryall, was one of the stops for the jet setters and international nomads. The great yachts all made the stop. It was very British, very Colonial.

Lady Sarah's Villa Content, Montego Bay, Jamaica.
Poolside at Content, overlooking the Caribbean.
Loading the piano into a van to be transported to the Ourisman's for New Year's Eve at Tryall.
View of Montego from the old fort.
I think Sarah bought Content in the mid-60s from a very elderly British baronet. It sat at the end of a long circular driveway, a deceivingly small looking one-story white stucco house almost buried in bougainvillea. When you entered, it transformed into a quite large house of two stories (it was hillside) with seven or eight bedrooms and bathrooms, and wide, comfortable public rooms, with wood or tiled floors. All overlooking a magnificent sweeping view of the island below and the Caribbean.

There were always houseguests. They were entertained by large dinner parties that she'd have, or large ones she'd be invited to, bringing her dozen houseguests along. There was the party she was invited to when she not only brought her houseguests, but also the piano, so that one of her houseguests could entertain.

Dozens, scores, probably hundreds came over the years. Clementine Churchill came to stay when Sir Winston died. Sarah called her friend Noël and asked him to come over to visit, to cheer her up. In the mid-70s, the young John Kennedy came with school chums and Secret Service. Everybody else came too. Prince Andrew came for R&R after the Falklands. The Queen Mum, stars of stage and screen, politicians, writers, hairdressers, manicurists, carpenters, interior decorators, friends of friends, their children.

Jamaica was in many ways a rather primitive place, compared to American standards. It was very British for the whites, big old houses, kept up, but nothing extravagant. Just damned useful. Everything had to be brought in from the mainland: appliances, parts, auto parts, foods, wines, dry goods. Things were often in need of patching up. Sarah liked this kind of roughing it. She was often shipping things in to upgrade the place.

The house was very old. The modern "conveniences" were all added over the years and quite improvisationally. Sarah never spent any more than she had. After her grandmother died (in 1964), she became a wealthy woman. Not rich, but wealthy. Sarah ran her house with a staff of five or six, including a Jamaican butler/major domo named Alty, who came with the house, along with his wife, the housekeeper, Melvia.

Melvia was, according to Sarah, a Communist, and as much as Sarah hated the Communists, and as aristocratically sure she was of her position in life, (her friends often called her "The General" on the island), Sarah was intimidated by Melvia. Alty was one thing (and of course he made a great rum drink that all the guests got plastered on), for he was a man. And men needed to be straightened out. But Sarah didn't tussle with her maid, Melvia.

Sarah loved a big dinner party. These pictures were taken over the Christmas holidays in the early 1980s, when she went down to Montego from her then home in Beverly Hills, with ten houseguests, from New York, Dallas, and mainly California.

Sarah's house parties were always very active and full of surprises. One night she had sixty for dinner. Two long tables in the dining room and on the terrace under a great tamarind tree. The menu was typically English — meat and potatoes — and the wine something Lady Sarah was able to wrest from the meager supplies (at the right price) of the local wine merchant. Having inherited a vast supply (more than one service for sixty) of china and silver from her grandmother, everyone had the proper place setting.

Troubadours Jamaica arrive to get the party dancing.
Lady Sarah and tropical guests in the dance (DPC in the background).
Lady Sarah and Bob Schulenberg.
Lady Sarah with Christopher Clarens.
Lady Sarah sat at the head of one long table. It wasn't unlike her to re-direct conversation (they didn't call her "The General" for nothing) amongst the guests if she felt they weren't mixing equally ("Mary, you've been talking long enough to Jennifer, talk to Tom!"). Sarah's guests, no matter who they were, or how long they had known her, followed orders.

After dessert, everyone left the tables for demitasse in the living room and sunroom. It must have been about eleven; a bright warm moonlit Jamaica night. Windows all open, the bougainvillea framing their casements, outside, in the distance, from another part of the forest, one could hear the jubilant percussion of reggae music makers making a party somewhere. Shortly, it seemed that the music and the party were closer. Within minutes, the music was on the property — what was it? — and soon thereafter, at the door ... and then bursting in, shattering the clatter of conversations.

In danced three Jamaican troubadours, playing and singing, dancing in a line around the living room and dining room. Soon the guests were following them. Then the whole house was dancing to the pied pipers of reggae, a kind of lighthearted pandemonium. Who were these people? From out of nowhere, playing and singing in the Lady's house.

There was no time to stop and ask; it was: just dance! Which we did. For a whirl of fifteen or twenty minutes. When suddenly, the troubadours, still playing, moved from the living room to the dining room, to the front hallway, still dancing ... then out the front door, and down the driveway, with their music slowly fading back into the distant night, to another part of the forest, until there was silence once again. It happened so quickly and so "spontaneously," these dancing music makers, that none of us realized until it was over, that it had been perfectly planned and scheduled by Sarah, to revive her guests after dinner and set the celebratory tone for the night.

The pictures tell only a small part of the story. This was a very difficult time in Sarah's life and there was much sadness about. Her third husband of more than thirteen years had only a few months before left her for a much younger woman. The separation and divorce was already heating up to be very messy, for the husband (for whom she moved to California to support his business ventures — that eventually failed spectacularly) was suing for a big chunk of her assets. She had been not only abandoned but felt deeply betrayed by his legal actions.

She was fifty-eight, and broken-hearted probably for the first time in her life. The lawsuits (which she finally won) took years to settle, so there would be many disappointments ahead. Life, nevertheless, went on, and Sarah was not one to get off the train. She kept moving forward.
Upon Sarah's Death. Published, October 18, 2000— She was a very tall woman with an imposingness, a take-charge personality that was direct, and could be both charming and disarming.

She was born Lady Sarah Consuelo Spencer Churchill on December 17, 1921, at a house in Portland Square, London, the daughter and first born of the Marquess of Blandford, and Mary Cadogan, one of four daughters of Viscount Chelsea who were fashionably known in their day as "the Cadogan Square." Her maternal grandmother, the former Consuelo Vanderbilt, was world famous for having been forced by her mother Alva (Mrs. Willie K.) Vanderbilt to marry Sarah's grandfather, the Duke of Marlborough at the end of the 19th century. Ironically, many years later, as a young woman, visiting at Cliveden, Sarah was told by Nancy Astor, in what were clearly meant to be unflattering terms, that she was "just like Grannie Smith." Grannie Smith being Astor's reference to Sarah's great-grandmother, Alva (whose maiden name was Smith).

When she was thirteen, her grandfather died, her father became the duke, and the family moved to Blenheim. Socially isolated, except for mainly the company of her siblings — two younger sisters and a brother (who is presently the duke), poorly educated as upper-class British girls were at the time, Sarah was nevertheless a most curious individual. She loved to read (which became a lifelong habit) and her favorite hours were spent in the servant's dining hall where she could pretend to be reading while listening to the staff gossip.

It was there that she first heard talk about Mrs. Simpson and the Prince of Wales, their relationship still unknown to the British people. The couple were coming for a weekend, and their bedrooms would be adjoining. Too young to know what a "mistress" or an "affair" was, she still could easily discern that Mrs. Simpson was not a "nice lady." So it surprised the young girl to meet a very charming woman, "very soigné" compared to Sarah's mother and her friends, Sarah recalled years later, and also, compared to Sarah's mother and her friends, very kind and affectionate toward Sarah's pet dog. Sarah loved dogs all her life and had lots of them (mainly Jack Russells).

The most influential person in her life was Grannie (Consuelo), who after divorcing the duke in 1920, married a Frenchman named Jacques Balsan. I once asked Sarah if she thought her grandmother had a happy second marriage. Her immediate answer was approvingly matter-of-fact, "Oh, of course ... it was her show."

From an early age Sarah and her siblings were brought to Long Island and Palm Beach to visit "Grannie." The child knew then that she wanted to live in America. American women led "independent" lives, "not shut up in cold country houses all week long while their husbands were down in London having a wonderful time."

In 1939, she made her debut at Blenheim in what has been referred to in histories as "the last great party" in England before the War. It was there that her mother openly disapproved of her "dancing with that black man" who happened to be the Maharajah of Jaipur, something that on recollection years later, left Sarah with wonder and amusement.

At the beginning of the Second World War, she married an American, Edwin Russell, and the following year, their first daughter, Serena (they had four), was born. Shortly thereafter, mother and daughter came to America to stay with Grannie. And so began Sarah's American life.

When the War was over, the Russells settled in Philadelphia on the Mainline. Their lives revolved around Philadelphia and Grannie's world of Manhattan, North Shore Long Island, Southampton, and Palm Beach. Proximity solidified the relationship of Sarah with her grandmother. As Grannie grew older, Sarah became the family member she could depend on, a role that fulfilled Sarah's maternal personality perfectly.

In the early 1960s, in her early forties, Sarah's life changed dramatically. Her grandmother died, leaving her a small fortune and another fortune in furniture, paintings, porcelains, and jewelry. Sarah also divorced her husband and became involved with a very handsome young Chilean man about twenty years her junior, named Guy Burgos. Her grandmother, who had long suggested the divorce from Russell, probably would have approved of Sarah's romantic adventure with Burgos. Her family, however, did not. Sarah, however, didn't care and never would care what anyone thought about it. The marriage lasted less than a year, but the couple remained very close friends for the rest of her life.

About a year after Burgos, while on a yachting trip in the Mediterranean off Greece, a guest of Henry McIlhenny, a Philadelphia socialite and art collector, Sarah met another very handsome man, a Greek named Theo Roubanis, also about twenty years her junior. Another Philadelphia friend, Gloria Etting, who was on the McIlhenny yacht at the time, recalled that the two became almost instantly involved, and were the "golden couple" everywhere they went.

Sarah and Roubanis were married shortly thereafter. By this time Lady Sarah had garnered a great deal of attention in the American and British press as a "madcap heiress," which amused her greatly. She never took the attention seriously, however. Sarah was a woman who followed her heart.

The Roubanis marriage lasted for thirteen years. Sarah built a large house on the Peloponnese, while maintaining houses in Manhattan and Montego, and, finally, Beverly Hills. Although wealthy, she was never rich (the bulk of Grannie's fortune went automatically to the Blenheim trusts). Nevertheless, she lived well (someone once said she could "stretch a buck around a New York City block"), brought up and educated her four daughters, while at various times supporting husbands, staffs and, various friends.

She never lost the thrill of traveling and she did so constantly. She was never more than three weeks in one place when she didn't have a reason (and a plane ticket) to travel elsewhere. Houses, friendships, family, and plain curiosity required her constant peripatetic attention.

The almost hyperactive pattern of movement in Sarah's life easily suggests a restless spirit. But she wasn't restless as much as she was energetic. If she had been a man, she would have been the duke, being the first born. A number of close friends always referred to her (usually out of her earshot, but not always) as "The Duchess." There was this huge propensity to lead, like a General, like John, the first Duke, who won the battle of Blenheim against the armies of Louis XIV, whose daughter Lady Henrietta Spencer did inherit the title becoming the Duchess of Marlborough.

Many years ago, while reading a biography of the first Duke, I came upon a long description of the personality of his wife, the first Sarah Churchill, the powerhouse whose intimate friendship with Queen Anne brought them Blenheim as a gift from Her Majesty. I was struck by detailed similarities between the Sarah of the 18th century, and the Sarah I knew. To confirm my impression, I called a friend who also knew her. "I'm going to read you a personality description," I told him, "and I want you to tell me who it is."

I began reading. Three or four sentences in, he stopped me. "Oh that's easy, that's Sarah."

He was as awestruck as I, when I told him that indeed it was Sarah, but the one from the 18th century.

So, for those who knew her, it is a great loss, that great force, that great light, a personality barbed and brilliant and melodious and enthusiastic and adventurous and bossy and embraced. She was all those things, and much much more. When they carried her casket from the church yesterday afternoon, hoisted on the pallbearers shoulders, it was almost baffling to know that she would be still forever.

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The air, the earth, the water, the wildlife and us ...

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Going nowhere. 1:20 PM. Photo: JH.
Tuesday, January 28, 2014. Mild day yesterday in New York. Cold but in the 40s, with temperature plunging to the low teens and RealFeal of below zero.

Last night at the Plaza, in the Grand Ballroom, The National Audubon Society honored Dan Lufkin and Patrick Noonan for their environmental leadership and lifetime commitment to the environment.

This was the first major fundraising event I’ve been to this month in New York. I mention it only because when the season heats up a couple of months from now, there will be at least one, sometimes two or three or more, four to five days at week, for a few weeks.
My very first selfie checking to see if the camera's battery is working before I got off the elevator to the Plaza Grand Ballroom.
When we hear the name Audubon, we think of John James Audubon, the naturalist painter of the 19th century and his paintings of birds and wildlife (ed. note, there was an auction last weekend at the Arader Galleries of several of Audubon’s images with almost a $ million in total sales.) He is the inspiration historically but the Audubon Society is about conservation of life on the planet which means the air, the earth, the water, the wildlife and us (which in many cases could be considered wildlife also).

So last night’s was a “serious” fundraiser. It was an evening of speeches, in a way. But serious. They drew a big crowd of several hundred men and women. They raised about $1.5 million. The dinner was very good, and the wine and the chocolate dessert. And there were speeches. 
George Archibald, co-founder and Senior Conservationist, International Crane Foundation, with last night's honoree Dan Lufkin.Allison Rockefeller, Chairman of the Women's Committee of the National Audubon Society.
But the interesting thing about the speeches was that everyone  in the room was listening throughout! That is almost a phenomenon these days because these large dinners are often shrouded by the din of the diners yakking with each other while someone on the stage is trying to make a point. People become children in a schoolroom without a teacher to supervise. Not so last night.

More impressive was the silence because it meant that many if not all the hundreds of guests are seriously interested in the work of Audubon at a time when Mother Earth is losing her patience with us earthlings.

Speakers were B. Holt Thrasher, Chairman of the board of directors of the National Audubon Society; David Yarnold, President and CEO of the Society; Glenn Olson, who holds the Donal O’Brien Chair in Bird Conservation of the society. Each man talked about the work and progress the Society is making around the country.  After dinner Nathaniel P. Reed, Vice-Chair of the Everglades Foundation presented the Lufkin Prize for Environmental Leadership to Patrick Noonan who has devoted his life to the environment and on-the-ground conservation.
The table set with the first course, a root vegetables salad.
Anne Ford and Ambassador William vanden Heuvel.
Then Holt Thrasher Presented the Audubon Medal to Dan Lufkin. By now you know that Dan Lufkin is involved in conservation issues. I knew that before. What I didn’t know was the extent.

I’ve known Dan Lufkin for several years. Not well, as we are basically social acquaintances who have had serious conversations, and enjoy the camaraderie. He has had a  distinguished career in Wall Street. He grew up in Westchester in an era that evokes Norman Rockwell images --  a humanity that resonated with the age (mid-20th century). Dan Lufkin to this day has that quality about him. Furthermore, he’s a man of great humor but a straight shooter. You know when he’s serious, not because there’s ire or fire before you, but because his words are about serious matters.
Donal O'Brien, the longtime chairman of the National Audubon Society who died last September. Mr. O'Brien was admired and beloved by conservationists who worked with him. He was "always urging Audubon to think the way birds see the world -- to think about large-scale conservation." His longtime friend Dan Lufkin was expressing the same message last night in his acceptance of the Audubon Medal.
Nathaniel P. Reed, Vice-Chairman of the Everglades Foundation, presenting the Medal to Patrick Noonan.
Patrick Noonan and Robert Redford.
Patrick Noonan last night accepting his award.
David Yarnold, Holt Thrasher, and Dan Lufkin with his Audubon Medal
Dan Lufkin talking about his involvement and commitment to conservation and its issues. In these three photos you see the man "of great humor but a straight shooter. You know when he's serious not because there's ire or fire before you, but because his words are about serious matters." And passionate.
Guests in the Grand Ballroom of the Plaza, there to honor Dan Lufkin and Patrick Noonan.
It was like that last night. He talked about the matters at hand in the conservation of the planet so that we can exist.  He made it clear that Global Warming is upon us and that we must not only take heed, but act. That wasn’t the point of his acceptance speech, however. The point of his speech was that the issues of the Audubon Society are the issues of the survival of the environment so that we can live with nature. Without it ...

And that was the evening. Started at 6:30 for cocktails. 7:30 dinner. About 9:30  quarter to ten, we were finished. We left with a reassuring sense that Purpose remains an accessible asset to all of us, and an objective with many, many of whom are supporters or activists in The National Audubon Society defines it.
During the evening when the video screens that were set up in the four corners of the ballroom weren't showing closeups of the people on the stage, they ran this series of our feathered friends, demonstrating that Mother Nature is the mother of all art, beauty, and wonder.
Last Thursday night when I went over to the preview of the Winter Antiques Show benefiting the East Side House Settlement, I took several photos of the stalls to give you an idea of what fair looked like. Unfortunately, my photos don't adequately relate the cornucopia of precious objects, art, furniture, silver, gold, etc. The show runs through next Sunday, at the Park Avenue Armory.
The crowd at the 2014 Winter Antiques Show.
Furniture from the Peabody Essex Museum collection which is celebrating its 215th birthday this year.
1926 dress by Parisian designer Jenny (Jeanne Bernard); 1868 - 1962, Paris. In 2011, with the promised gift of Iris Apfel's "Rare Bird of Fashion" collection, the museum launched international modern and contemporary fashion as its most recent collecting initiative. It's extensive holdings in historic costumes and textiles include a world-class concentration of shoes, American women's fashion and accessories from 1820 to 1930.
Rupert Wace Ancient Art Limited, London, England.
Gerald Peters Gallery, New York, NY.Macklowe Gallery, New York, NY.
David A. Schorsch • Eileen M. Smiles American Antiques, Woodbury, CT.Hirschl & Adler Galleries, New York, NY.
Jonathan Trace, Portsmouth, NH.Ralph M. Chait Galleries, Inc., New York, NY.
Delaney Antique Clocks, West Townsend, Massachusetts.Peter Finer, London, England.
A French Epee de Luxe with gold and porcelain hilt, presented to King Fernando VII of Spain, 1816.Thomas Gainsborough, Portrait of Admiral Philip Affleck, mid 1780s. Alexander Gallery, New York, NY.
Barbara Israel Garden Antiques, Katonah, NY.Hyland Granby, Antiques, Hyannis Port, Massachusetts.
The scene at the bar.
Winter Scene with Archery Contest, by a Chinese artist, c. 1815. Martyn Gregory, London, England.
Keshishian, New York, NY.
Alfred Bullard, Inc., Philadelphia, PA.
Aronson of Amsterdam, Amsterdam, The Netherlands.
A pair of Mickey and Minnie Mouse dolls, American, c. 1930.Designed by Charlotte Clark for the Disney Studios in 1930. Frank & Barbara Pollack American Antiques & Art, Highland Park, IL.
Cove Landing, New York, NY.
Philip Colleck, Ltd. New York, NY.
Wartski, London, England.
Emerald and diamond brooch of a lady.
Hostler Burrows, New York, NY.
S.J. Shrubsole, New York, NY.
Allan Katz Americana, Woodbridge, CT.
Lost City Arts, New York, NY.
David Webb Jewelry at Kentshire, New York, NY.
René Boivin at James Robinson, Inc., New York, NY.
Colorful guests having drinks.
Hirschl & Adler Galleries, New York, NY.
Queen Victoria's Tiara at Wartski, London.
Diamond Stars and Moons necklace in platinum by Jean Schlumberger for Tiffany & Co.
The crowd milling about.
Also in New York this week there are 28 distinct exhibitions by the world's leading drawings dealers -- from the largest show of Gainsborough drawings in the the US in the past hundred years, to iPad created digital art by Mexican artist Elena Climent; as well as works of Picasso, Rauschenberg, Miro. Tonight many are open till 8 p.m. Check it out on www.masterdrawingsinnewyork.com.
And now for something to warm your heart with a reminder about our greatest four legged friends ...
 

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The view from the perch

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An abondoned glove. 1:20 PM. Photo: JH.
Thursday, January 30, 2014. Another very cold day, yesterday in New York with midnight temperatures in the low teens.

It was a bright and sunny frigid day; and it was Wednesday so it was Michael’s. I had been there the day before and while it was just about fully reserved, it was sedate. Yesterday it was back to its popular pandemonium. The roar of the crowd.
The other glove strewn nearby.
I was lunching with Ambassador John Loeb. Across the way from us Rikki Klieman (Mrs. Bill Bratton) was lunching with Norah O’Donnell. At the Table One in the bay, Bonnie Fuller and Gerry Byrne of Penske Media were holding one of their Wednesday lunches with cross-section of New York media including Christine Romans of CNN, Jill Zarin of “New York Housewives,” PR guru Maury Rogoff, Chris Ariens of Mediabistro, Michael’s Mayor and veteran media wiz, Joe Armstrong, Paul Sinclaire of Joe Fresh, Brian Balthazar of AOL, Samara Finn of Marina Mahar Commuications. Next door Real Estate Brokers to the billionaires Eva Mohr and Serena Boardman were lunching with a friend. Andrew Stein was lunching with James Tobak and Montel Williams.

At the corner table, Gayle King of CBS This Morning; next door, uber-literary agent Esther Newberg. Across from her: Da Boyze (minus one), Dr. Imber, Messrs Kramer, Greenfield and Bergman. Next door to me,  Self magazine’s Lucy Danizer. Around the room: Andrew Ross Sorkin and guests; Joan Gelman with Joan Hamberg and Robert Zimmerman; next to them Judy Price of National Jewelry Institute and Barbara Cirkva; Gordon Davis and Diane Coffey; Estee Lauder’sAlexandra Trower; Dini von Mueffling; Adam Platzner of Cornelius Capital who went to school with John Loeb’s son Nicholas Loeb, creator and marketer of “Onion Crunch.”
A shout-out for DPC on Twitter.
Moving right along, Jerry Inzerillo, President and CEO of IMG Artists; Jack Kliger of TV Guide: Steven Greenberg of Allen & Co.; Tony Hoyt with Carolyn Davis; Shelly Palmer of Palmer Advance Media; actor Robert Wuhl with his brother Evan Wuhl; Armando Ruiz of Art Treats; Aryeh Boiurkoff of Lion Tree; real estate investment guru Jonathan Estreich; PR/marketing exec Lisa Linden with InterContinental Barclay’s Herve Houdre; architect/graphic designer Richard Wuman; United Talent’s Jay Sures; Shelley Zaris of IPSOS OTX; Jason Weisenfeld, business partner of Jacqui Lividini; Michael J. Wolf. And at the bar taking it all in and the comings and goings: Philippe and Paula Salomon who love that perch and can often be found there enjoying their lunch and the whole way of life a la Michaels’.
Georgette Farkas with JH's brother, Jason Hirsch, and Nancy Xu last night at Rotisserie Georgette, where they were celebrating Jason's birthday. According to JH, the Poulet Roti (rotisserie chicken) with herbes de Provence and garlic jus was absolutely mouthwatering, "including the white meat!"

They started with the Grilled Octopus Grenobloise ("Ratte" Potatoes, Tomato Confit, Lemon, Capers, Croutons) and the Salad Francine (named after Georgette's mother) of Arugula, Artichoke Heart, Wax Beans Carrot-Coriander Vinaigrette, Parmesan Chips. Oh, and the Rabbit Rillette with Crostini, too.

Accompanying the chicken were Romanesco Cauliflower, Black Trumpets and Raisins; and Stuffed & Crisped Baked Idaho filled with Parmesan Mashed Potatoes. If that wasn't enough (it was a birthday dinner after all), they also shared some Brown Butter ice cream and a Cookie Trio for dessert. If you can't tell, he'll be back ... and will be bringing me along.
This past Tuesday night, Delia von Neuschatz joined more than 200 others from the worlds of fashion, arts and the media at M Studio in the West Village “to celebrate the arrival of the month-long Faberge Big Egg Hunt” – the world’s largest which will begin on April 1st.

The event drew an “only in New York” cross-section of personalities — Reinaldo and Carolina Herrera; Mark Shand, the Englishman who is deeply committed to saving the elephants (see Mark Shand: An Elephant-Sized Life); Princess Eugenie, daughter of Sarah, the Duchess of York and Prince Andrew, the Duke of York. Shand and Princess Eugenie are relatives (through marriage) as his sister Camilla is married to Beatrice’s uncle, Prince Charles. But you knew that already, right? I think Princess Eugenie has been spending some time in New York, and looks like it suits her well.
Serene sunset over the Hudson.
Here is Delia’s account for the NYSD:

More than 200 of the great and the good from the worlds of art, fashion and media gathered at M Studio in the West Village to celebrate an upcoming event the likes of which is sure to delight even the most jaded, the most blasé of New Yorkers.

HRH Princess Eugenie of York, Mark Shand, Carolina and Reinaldo Herrera, Agnes Gund, Naeem Khan, Eva Jeanbart Lorenzotti, Waris Ahluwalia, Andrew Saffir, David Benedict, Suydam Lansing, Sandra Nunnerley, Joan Rivers, Richard Story, Leo Villareal and Yvonne Force Villareal came together to celebrate the arrival of the month-long Fabergé Big Egg Hunt– the world’s largest egg hunt — which will take New York by storm beginning on April 1st. 
Mark Shand and HRH Princess Eugenie of York.
Modeled after a record-setting 2012 London event, 250+ giant eggs, each designed by different artists, fashion designers and architects, will be dispersed throughout all five boroughs, the objects of a treasure hunt.  Egg designers for the New York spectacle include Diane von Furstenberg, Carolina Herrera, Ralph Lauren, Tommy Hilfiger,Marchesa, Olivier Theyskens, Julian Schnabel, Tracey Emin, Bruce Weber, Peter Max, Terry Richardson, D*Face, Ronnie Wood, Peter Beard, and Zaha Hadid— to name just a few!  As with the London endeavor, however, it isn’t only established creatives who are lending their talents, but also emerging and up-and-coming artists who have never been exhibited. 
Carolina and Reinaldo Herrera.
Joan Rivers.
The Cocktail Countdown featured a sneak preview of several of the eggs that will be exhibited throughout the city and guests were also treated to a live art installation by participating artist Shantell Martin as well as to an immersive dance performance by Gallim Dance.
Artist Shantell Martin created her egg live throughout the evening.
Egg designed by artist Frank Hyder of the Rebecca Hossack gallery.
Several of the egg sculptures that will be on display.
The Gallim Dance company performed during the evening.
And as if the sheer pleasure of viewing these artworks isn’t enough, Fabergé is further incentivizing participation in the eggstravaganza by awarding gemstone prizes to the winners.
Nina Bogdan, Lauren Parry, and Carla Barrucci showcasing Fabergé jewelry.
A sample of participating artists and locations.
A map of egg locations in Manhattan.
The whole enterprise will culminate in a gala event at the end of April at which many of the highly collectible, one-of-a-kind eggs will be auctioned off by Sotheby’s.  The proceeds of the Egg Hunt will benefit two non-profit organizations — Mark Shand’s Elephant Family which is racing against the clock to save the Asian elephant from extinction and Agnes Gund’s Studio in a School which brings the visual arts to hundreds of thousands of New York City children in under-served public schools and daycare centers.
Tara Dhinghra and Waris Ahluwalia.
Bill Cunningham hard at work.
Savage with Eric and Stephanie Michelson of M Studio.
Henry Wyndham.
Peter and Mary Max.
Agnes Gund and Mark Shand.
Michele Oka Doner.
Colby Jordan and Anya Firestone.
Aline Thompson.
Kelly Vitko and Andrew Fenet.
Tatyana Murray, Edgar Battista, and Mary McFadden.
Baron Roger de Cabrol and Baroness Bara de Cabrol.
Mark Shand and Suydam Lansing.
Brooke Smy and Jason Woodside.
Matt Stewart and Catherine Sabino.
Pilar Molyneux, Bernard Saint-Donat, and Nikki Weller.
Pam Revson and Michael Teakle.
Sarah Arison, Greg O'Shea, and Nikki Sleeman.
Dennis Rolland and Michael Head.
Fiona McInstrie, Mark Shand, and Ruth Powys.
Stacy Engman and Pia Tonna.
Pam Taylor and Karen Werner.
Elena Vertlib, Taly Ozir, and Anjollie Feradov.
Kelly Vitko and Delia von Neuschatz.
Tessa John-Connor.
 

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Com’on it’s February

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Looking north along the icy Hudson River towards the George Washington Bridge. 1:20 PM. Photo: JH.
Monday, February 3, 2014. Not cold in New York. Not warm either, but com’on it’s February. Upper 40s; like the tropics.

The Sun came out on both Saturday and Sunday, and almost all the left-over ice/slush from the storm had turned to water, and dried the sidewalks. The Promenade along the river was busy yesterday with runners/joggers, people walking with their dogs and/or their family/friends, bicyclists and early seekers of some natural Vitamin D. It’s the first time I’ve seen it like that in a few weeks and it was an “up.”

Another six weeks of this, so says Punxsutawney Phil.
Nevertheless, it’s still a bit of that winter blahs out there (and in here) that you’ve been detecting in the Diary these past few weeks. It’s the weather, the news, the social inertia and the general all-around torpor.

I love that word Torpor. I was reminded of it yesterday when I was reading about Punxsutawney Phil who came out and saw his shadow down there in PA, and so we know (we think) that we’re in for another six weeks of this, weather-wise. The Groundhogs (are related to the squirrels, incidentally) and hibernate during which time they occasionally awaken and experience torpor. Just like us!!

Meanwhile, I use the word (torpor) so infrequently that I’m never quite sure that I know its definition. Although it comes up at just the right time. Do you know it? Here’s the definition:

A state of physical or mental inactivity; lethargy.
"they veered between apathetic torpor and hysterical fanaticism"
synonyms: lethargy, sluggishness, inertia, inactivity, lifelessness, listlessness, languor, lassitude laziness, idleness, indolence, sloth, etc ... It goes on and on.
More ice floating down river on the Hudson ...
Now do you know what I mean? Oh, it’s actually in your house? It’s not that bad around my house whatwith three demanding dogs to look after no matter what. However, I love the word Torpor because it gives dignity to the ordinariness of it all. And let’s face it, at the end of the day, we’re all ordinary.

Which, speaking of. There’s been very little “gossip” around. People always ask me: “what’s the gossip?” I’m not a gossip columnist despite what some people might think, although I do love a good story that might be called gossip but could end up being The Human Comedy, Richard III, Dracula, etc. But I like hearing it as much as the next one. Especially something dramatic. There haven’t been many or even any of those around lately.
The other night at dinner, my hostess told me about a woman I know who recently left her husband after forty years. I don’t mention her name only because she’s not a celebrity. When I was told, I naturally asked, did her husband have another woman? No. Did she have another man? No, except she is seeing someone now (since). This was after forty years. That, I thought, was interesting. But what is interesting is not the gossip – that’s on the spritz – but the story behind it. We’re only human, so there’s drama.

Which, speaking of, you may have noticed that I don’t discuss politics on the Diary. Although there are those who are confident they can label me politically (I wouldn’t be so sure – about a lot of us). I avoid the discussion because whatever my opinion is versus someone else’s opinion, it is irrelevant to your reading pleasure (and mine too). However, one of the interesting things going on in the town at the moment is about the new Mayor, Mr. De Blasio.
I should preface this by saying I live on the Upper East Side, what used to be called the Silk Stocking District and which could still be called the World Financial District’s Private Dwellings and Schools. And I report on the lives of many of these people (and my other people too, don’t forget).

This demographic I’m referring to is traditionally Republican and so-called Conservative. There are, of course, many exceptions to the label (which is all it is, in my opinion -- and not necessarily reliable). That said: we have this new Mayor, Mr. De Blasio, and when his name comes up, there is most often an expression of dislike. I use that word diplomatically because the “opinions” about him that follow seem to be based on a natural state of dislike. To put it mildly.

I don’t know the man and I am not well informed on his past. I mainly judged him the way most of us judge people we don’t know, have never seen (except maybe on television) and mainly know what we read in the papers about them. Or know somebody who knows somebody. I never entirely trust what I read in the papers because most reporters/journalists have opinions that dance through their prose which may be just inches from prejudicial. I don’t think I know anybody who knows Mayor De Blasio. And the little I know of him has been through the media, mainly the papers. The words “taxes” and “divisive” come in the expressions of dislike.

It amazes me. We know nothing about the man as a Mayor. And yet we seem to think we know exactly how it’s going to (not) work out. That’s what most journalism in mainstream media and on the internet is today: readings on the future.
I worked in Ed Koch’s political campaigns for Congress when I was a kid in my 20s. He’d stand by the subway entrances (on the Upper East Side) in the mornings, and he’d shake everybody’s hand, and with a smile he’d say: “Hi, I’m Ed Koch and I’m running for Congress,” or “Hi, I’m Ed Koch, how’m I doin’?”

I never worked closely with him but to be around him was to be around a liberal minded somewhat shy fellow. Then ten years later he became Mayor, and he became Ed Koch. I know it was the same man, but they were different also. He graduated. I’m sure there a lot of people out there who could rip him up  one side and down the other, but mainly he was a pretty good mayor and the city was a better place for it.

So I’m thinking ... knowing nothing, or just a bit less than most of us ... Mr. De Blasio might just turn out to be a really great mayor and New York might just become an even greater town.  And if not, well ... we’ve been down that road before, right? And we survived it.
Even The American Museum of Natural History played a part in Super Bowl XLVIII.
Meanwhile, despite all this torpor talk, it is New York and people are going out and doing things and seeing things and showing things, and partying. The Super Bowl Weekend notwithstanding,  there’ve been things going on that I was invited to such as The Winter Antiques Show Young Collectors Night to benefit East Side House Settlement on Thursday night at the Park Avenue Armory.

Also Thursday night down at the Staley Wise Gallery on 560 Broadway there was a reception for Priscilla Rattazzi and her Selected Photographs: 1975-2013. The show runs through February 22nd.  Priscilla is native Italian although she’s been American (or living in America for decades), is married to Christopher Whittle, has a family and dogs – which she also loves to photograph. She is modern version of a European – specifically Italian – aristocrat and is loaded with quietly poetic charm. So are her photographs. Go see.
From Priscilla Rattazzi's Selected Photographs: 1975-2013.
Also Thursday night last Craig F. Starr Gallery hosted a reception for artist Susan Rothenberg and her new exhibition titled: First Horse.  The show runs through March 29th. Gallery hours Monday-Saturday, 11-5:30, 5 East 73rd Street.

And on Saturday, New York Philharmonic Orchestra held their Chinese New Year Celebration. With a concert, followed by dinner (black tie) with the artists. A beautiful winter weekend evening in New York.
Susan Rothenberg, Split, 1974.
 

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The sticky stuff ...

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Walking through the snow in Riverside Park. 2:00 PM. Photo: JH.
Tuesday, February 4, 2014.  It snowed all day yesterday in New York, from early early morning until very late afternoon. It was totally unexpected for me. I don’t know how I missed the forecast, weather-obsesser that I am. The night before when I took the dogs out, there was a light rain. The doorman told me when we came in that snow was expected.

It didn’t seem like it was cold enough for snow.  But it was. It was one of those beautiful snowfalls where the white stuff coated the branches of the trees, making these complex and delicate lacey webs.

I went to lunch in Carnegie Hill, at Paola’s on Madison and 92nd. There was no traffic at all. The avenues were almost clear as well. Evidently many people who comes into Manhattan to work – from the other boroughs, as well as Connecticut and New Jersey – didn’t. Flights were canceled and not a few Super Bowl fans from out of town got another day and night in New York.
I took this yesterday mid-afternoon. It was still snowing but the roads were already getting dirty and slushy. But I love that large tree by the green scaffolding as it looks more like mist than snow. This is my favorite tree on the avenue. In the Springtime when the buds appear it looks like a magnificent pointillist painting.
This was coming home from lunch, still snowing -- Carl Schurz Park -- the Mayor's house is just a couple hundred yards to the left in this park. Again, the extraordinary artistry of Mother Nature.
One of my terrace views as you may recall. They look like they're covered in silver or a white gold.
And this beauty, fully made up for her winter storm appearance, elegant and smart.
Here we are again looking at the fave. The pointillist tree looks like it's powdered to a cloud.
East 92nd Street looking east to Park Avenue. Many of the side streets in the 70s, 80s, and 90s have these extraordinary tunnels of lacey webs. This was taken at about 2:45 PM.
Park Avenue at 92nd Street looking South.
88th and Park looking East (I took this from a cab).
The island at 86th and Park, looking south.
Although this is New York, and people still get out on the town. Last night I went down to the Pierre where the Drama League was holding its annual gala and honoring Neil Patrick Harris who clearly is beloved by many of his colleagues and many in his audience. But more about that tomorrow.

After the snow stopped, it got a little colder – but not too ... cold enough to keep the branches still webbed in white. JH, on the Upper West Side, couldn’t resist going for some snow pictures, so here they are ...
 

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A day after-the-storm day

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Running through Central Park. 1:40 PM. Photo: JH.
Wednesday, 2/5/14. Cold in New York and the weatherman says that by the time you read this it will have been raining and/or sleeting or maybe snowing, and icy. Not a good day for reading your cell phone while walking along the street or road. Actually, it’s never a good idea, rain or shine, but the world’s not there yet.

Meanwhile, JH couldn't resist one last look at Monday's snowfall a day later and still spectacular ...
Looking south along Central Park West and 86th Street.
Looking north along Central Park West and 86th Street.
Snow falling from the trees.
And before it melted.
Looking towards the San Remo on Central Park West from within Central Park.
Looking east across the Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis Reservoir.
Sun tanning in the snow.
Walking along the paths.
And off the paths.
And on again ...
Clearing the snow from the trees.
Looking south across the Great Lawn.
Snow sliding off the park benches.
A pigeon convention on 85th Street between Central Park West and Columbus.
A playground basketball hoop filled with snow.
Icicles melting on scaffolding.
All lined up on Broadway and 84th Street.
Looking north along Broadway from 86th Street.
A globe light thaws.
Looking south along West End Avenue and 85th Street.
I went down to Michael’s to lunch with Alejandra Cicognani, a public relations executive I”ve known for a long time but only on a social basis. Alejandra and I have many friends and social acquaintances in common, but she above all, is a very nice woman with a warm personality and is especially charming. You believe her.

So we made this date, and I didn’t know there would be a third – because she brought along a client. A most interesting client. A woman from St. Petersburg named Irina Nikitina, who is President of the Musical Olympus Foundation.

This is one of the things about New York that makes it infinitely intriguing – the people you might meet -- for some reason often tied to someone’s business -- and the lives they lead. Irina Nikitina speaks very good English but with a heavy accent that is both charming and often difficult to comprehend. Not to mention my hearing isn’t what it used to be so there was a lot of “what did you say?”  I love foreign accents. I often wished I had one (??), but seriously, which of course I don’t. And shouldn’t have.
DPC with Musical Olympus Foundation's Irina Nikitina, and Alejandra Cicognani.
Irina is a concert pianist. A Russian. Her  greatest hero is Rachmaninoff. I’ll vote with her. Except a concert pianist is not just someone who plays the piano. She (or he) is someone who lives the piano. All doors lead to and from. The artist. In the mid-1990s she injured her third finger on her right hand. She held her hand up to indicated it when she was telling me. Her injury has recovered although she still doesn’t have the dexterity that is required to continue performing.

Irina is now President of the Musical Olympus Foundation to assist young musicians in developing their careers as professionals.  The Foundation is a non-profit, started in 1995 with the charter of enhancing arts and culture in Russia and around the world through the universal language of music.  
Irina Nikitina congratulating Andras Schiff at a recent concert at the St. Petersburg state philharmonic hall.
Each year the Foundation produces the annual Musical Olympus Festival. The Festival which was designed to represent a young musical elite, is one of the most prominent examples of globalization in music. In its past 18 editions, the Musical Olympus Festival has been held all over the world, with 420 musicians from over 40 countries participating. The Foundation works in a global campaign to promote classical music by encouraging the appreciation, creation, study and performance of music.

Through award competitions, festivals and scholarships, the Foundation identifies and supports exceptionally talented young instrumental soloists and chamber ensembles from around the world. By shedding light on these emerging artists, whose achievements show promise of an international career, the Foundation is a platform to mentor new talents and introduce them to new audiences.
Steve Millington falling asleep while talking to Page Six's Emily Smith.
On April 9th, 2014, the Musical Olympus Foundation will host its eighth annual Musical Olympus Festival, at Carnegie Hall. Carnegie Hall is, of course, a premier concert venue in the world of music, and is so renowned internationally.

The Festival will feature young musicians from four countries in a festival performance showcasing their talent: Marc Bouchkov (France, violin), Remi Geniet (France, piano), Igor Eliseev (Russia, double bass), Nathalie Mittelbach (Switzerland, mezzo-soprano) and Vassilena Serafimova (Bulgaria, percussion). The musicians will perform works by Bottesini, Bruch, Haydn, Rachmaninoff, Brahms, and Bizet.

Clockwise from top left: Marc Bouchkov (France, violin); Igor Eliseev (Russia, double bass), Nathalie Mittelbach (Switzerland, mezzo-soprano); Vassilena Serafimova (Bulgaria, percussion); Remi Geniet (France, piano).
The artists have been awarded top prizes at prestigious international competitions, including: Montreal International Musical Competition, The Queen Elisabeth International Music Competition in Brussels, The Koussevitzky International Double Bass Competition in St. Petersburg, and the Haefliger Swiss International Singing Competition in Bern.

"Music is a universal value,” Irina told me. “It provides a language that enables the dialogue of people from different nations and cultures.” She and the Foundation are there to help both the artists and the audiences across the world. Artists are the best diplomats.

April 9th at Carnegie Hall, don’t forget.

So that’s what you need to know, and that is what this lunch was about, I was pleasantly surprised to learn.

For a dull winter’s day, Michael’s yesterday was as rockin’ as if it were a Wednesday. In the bay at Table One was a group of “women in media and PR”: Desiree Gruber, who was among us, dubbed them "The Hot Chicks.”  Alina Cho and Dini Von Mueffling invited the group, which included Page Six's Emily Smith, MacAndrews & Forbes'Christine Taylor, Fox 5'sRosanna Scotto, CBS Money Watch'sGigi Stone, WIE's Dee Poku, Swarovski's Rory Hermelee, BrandStyle's Di Petroff, and this month's guest speaker, Dr. Chiente Hsu, an investment guru, PhD, former Credit Suisse Managing Director and author of the just published “Rule Based Investing” (FT Press).

She told the group that women were better investors than men. I wonder. Some of the greatest investors I’ve known, both male and female, were not only smart and sharp about their chocies, but had at least one or two major bits of luck come their way. That’s life and that’s business.

However, that said, I know several of those women at the lunch, and they are sharp and smart. About investing? Well, we may never know.

Also about the room yesterday: Joni Evans, literary agent and director of WOWOWOW.com; Glenn Horowitz was lunching with Jay McInerney and Jack Kliger; around the room: Pamela Van Zandt of Estee Lauder; Susan Duffy of Stuart Weitzman; Charles McCurdy of Apprise Media, John Morgan; mega-literary agent Esther Newberg; Liz Smith (not ours but of) Alliance Bernstein;  Bob Friedman of Bungalow Media and Entertainment; Vartan Gregorian, former President of Brown University, now of the Carnegie Corporation; Todd Bishop, Deputy Director of MoMA – which is just through across the garden and across the street;  Peter Brown;  Jimmy Finkeltstein; Toni Goodale with Cynthia Brill and Sarah Simms Rosenthal; Ginny (Mrs. Henry) Mancini; Micki Ateyeh; John Ledecky; Lisa Linden, Dan Lufkin; Martin Puris; Bonnie Fuller, Matthew Marco of Marco International Group; Jennifer (Mrs. David) Stockman; Richard Ritholz; Andrew Blauner, and a lot more just like ‘em.
JH's mother, Rochelle, took this shot of The Frick asking us if it were JH-worthy. "It's a beauty," JH and I concurred.
 

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Moon over Manhattan. 9:30 PM. Photo: JH.
Friday, February 7, 2014. Sunny and cold yesterday in New York. Dry pavements, but icy with mounds of hard, dirty snow lining the roadways if all the neighborhood and side streets. A lot of the cars still look like this, five days after the storm.
You’ve heard about the weather and the snow and the cold and the torpor and the quiet from these pages during the past few weeks. Well, that’s over. Fashion Week starts now, this week and the social calendar now begins running overtime. You can see the first of Ellin Saltzman’s daily dispatches from the runways (as well as to and from) beginning on today’s NYSD.

This past Wednesday over at Phoenix
Roze, jewelry designer Guy Rozenstrich’s boutique on 994 Madison Avenue between 77th and 78th Street, interior designer Lisa Jackson was feted with a champagne reception for the launch of her new jewelry collection, LJ Cross.

The hosts were Marcia Mishaan, Patrick McMullan, Marisa Noel Brown, Helen Schifter and Dayssi Olarte De Kanavos. Among the guests were Tory Burch, Nicole Miller, Dennis Basso, Vera Wang. They also toasted Harboring Hearts, the non-profit organization here in the city that provides heart patients and their families with emotional and housing support.
Lisa Jackson and Vera Wang
Sarah Ayres and Tory Burch
Morgan O'Connor, Dayssi Olarte de Kanavos, and David Burnett
Helen Lee Schifter
Debbie Loeffler
Chanel Omari
Marisa Noel Brown and Mark Gilbertson
Patty Smyth McEnroe and Somers Farkas
Carol Mack and Marcia Mishaan
Michael Cominotto and Dennis Basso
Caryn Zucker, Rob Kaplan, and Bettina Zilkha
Quinn Jackson and Lisa Jackson
Sarah Senbahar and Danielle Ganek
Jill Fairchild
Cory Hillman and Tony Lupinacci
Trey Laird and Harry Slatkin
Ward Kelvin, Lisa Jackson, and Guy Rozenstrich
Tate Jackson, Josh Rich, and Alex Adler
Last Saturday February 1st, Genevieve Livingston Estes du Pont of Palm Beach died after a long illness. Always known as “Bunnie” to her family and many friends, she was in her 98th year.

Mrs. du Pont, who grew up Jacksonville, made her debut in New York in the 1936 season where she attended Finch College. The following year, 1937, when she was 21, she became engaged to Nicholas Ridgely du Pont, the son of Mr. and Mrs. Eugene du Pont of Wilmington.

Mr. and Mrs. Nicholas Ridgely du Pont on their wedding day.
Eugene du Pont was a member of the family which owned and/or controlled E. I, du Pont de Nemours & Company, where he was involved in the family business from 1897 to 1912.  That brief period belies Mr. du Pont’s place in the world of the nation and its business. In 1930, James Watson Gerard, Woodrow Wilson’s Ambassador to Germany named Eugene du Pont as one of the  “sixty-four men who rule the United States.” (my italics.)

The young couple, Nicholas and Bunnie, were married that fall of 1937 in Jacksonville. Earlier that same year, in June, Nicholas du Pont’s sister Aimee du Pont married Franklin D. Roosevelt Jr., the son of Eleanor and Franklin who was then in his second term as President of the United States.

As one of the leading, and wealthiest industrial families in 20th century America, the du Ponts were prominent in the world that was known as Society which represented solid wealth as well as social prominence and political power. The newly weds naturally were prominent in that world in New York, Wilmington and Palm Beach.

For the past three years, the NYSD has been running run the photo archive of Ellen Glendinning Fraser Ordway of Philadelphia, Palm Beach and Northeast Harbor, that chronicles in her own photographs, the life and times of that society in those places.

The following photographs were from the Ordway collection, taken at the Palm Beach house of Mrs. du Pont and her husband in the early 1960s.
April, 1964. 977 North Ocean Boulevard, Palm Beach. Bunnie du Pont and Sid Luft waiting for the Duke and Duchess of Windsor to arrive for lunch. Luft was the third husband of Judy Garland and father of Lorna Luft.
An informal luncheon for Wallis, Duchess of Windsor, April 1964 (l. to r.) Bunnie du Pont, Suzanne "Suzy" Anderson Gardner, and Wallis, Duchess of Windsor.
Bunnie du Pont, Duke of Windsor, and Ellen Ordway, May 1964.
Bunnie du Pont and Lesly Ordway, Seminole Golf Course, North Palm Beach, 1968.
Bunnie du Pont and Lesly Ordway.
Bunnie and Nicky du Pont's house on North Ocean Boulevard.
Living room. When Valerian Rybar, the world's most expensive decorator to the world's wealthiest, died in 1990, Bunnie du Pont told The New York Times, ''He combined taste and drama in a very unique way,'' Mrs. DuPont recalled. ''And unlike many designers, Valerian was versatile. He could go from the most lavish and elaborate schemes to something simple and clean-cut.''
A view from the living room towards the ocean.
The bedroom.
Mrs. du Pont was a member of the Garden Club of Palm Beach; president of the Garden Club of Wilmington, Del.; president of the Garden Club of America; a credited judge of horticulture for life; board member emeritus of the Pacific Tropical Botanical Gardens; a member of the advisory committee at Longwood Gardens in Kennett Square, Pa.; and a trustee of the American Horticultural Society.

The Garden Club of Palm Beach awards The Bunnie duPont Hibiscus Trophy, given to the best cut specimen of hibiscus in the show.
She is survived by a daughter, Nicole Limbocker and husband Derek Limbocker; two granddaughters, Hilary Dick and Ridgely Brode and husband Charles Brode; and a grandson, Brian Sayer and his wife, Colleen. In addition, she is survived by four great-grandchildren, Sophie and Gigi Dick, and Hunter and Cole Brode.  She was pre-deceased by her husband; and a daughter, Genevieve (always known as ViVi) duPont.

The burial will be in Wilmington on an undetermined date. A memorial service will be held at 5:30 p.m. March 15 in Palm Beach, at The Society of Four Arts in the Pannill Pavilion.

Instead of flowers, donations in her memory may be made to the Garden Club of Palm Beach, P.O. Box 2791, Palm Beach, FL 33480 or to Longwood Gardens, P.O. Box 501, Kennett Square, PA 19348.
 

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Forecast on the money

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Friday night moon setting over New Jersey. Photo: JH.
Monday, February 10, 2014. Cold but sunny weekend in New York, and with the forecast on the money, it started to snow yesterday (Sunday) just as night was falling, tapering off by mid-evening with more cold weather tomorrow.
Saturday sunset. Looking southwest, and northwest. I love the pink glow cast on the limestone building.
I was watching this guy dig out his car which had been behind the snowwalls (caused by the plows) since last Monday and Tuesday. The snowbanks are hard, like solid rocks of ice. He spent about two hours first chopping and breaking up the snow, and then shoveling it into the road.
Finally he made enough of a pathway to drive the car out, which he did, pulling up a few yards away, double-parked. He was about to get in when he noticed ...
Someone immediately backed into the newly freed space (he had to exit by the passenger door).
And then last night about 9:30 ...
A delivery man on bicycle making his way down the avenue.
A homeless man whom I often see sitting in the park, pulling his bags and carrying his belongings en route (I hope) to a warm shelter for the night. The blue cover he is wearing is a large piece of plastic that he made into an overcoat over a jacket given to him by one of the neighbors in the area.
Yesterday a friend invited me to see the Encores! Revival production of  Cy Coleman and Carolyn Leigh’s“Little Me” with book by Neil Simon at City Center. I saw the original version directed by producer Cy Feuer when it opened at the Lunt-Fontaine in 1962, with Bob Fosse doing the choreography.

That was the heyday of mid-century Broadway musicals. At around that time Broadway was festooning with great shows – “Hello Dolly,” “How to Succeed in Business Without Really Trying,” “Funny Girl,” “Cabaret,” “A Funny Thing Happened on the Way to the Forum,” as well as a bevy of long running hits including “Gypsy,” which closed that January, “My Fair Lady” was still running (it closed after a six year run – then a record) that September, and  “Sound of Music” which closed after an almost four year run, that November.

I was a newbie to the Broadway scene, fresh from college, but I knew (reading the columns everyday) what the public knew about what was going up and going on.

Neil Simon was a very hot young playwright who had cut his teeth writing comedy skits in the 1950 on the great “Show of Shows” (90 minutes every Saturday night with Imogene Coca and Sid Caesar). Simon was only one of an impressive alumni roster who wrote for Sid Caesar, including Carl Reiner and Mel Brooks. The year before “Little Me” he had had a hit comedy on Broadway, “Come Blow Your Horn.”

The producers were Cy Feuer and Ernie Martin who had had hits with Cole Porter’s“Silk Stockings” and “Can-Can,” as well as Frank Loesser’s“Guys and Dolls.” The idea for this one came from the book of the same name written by Patrick Dennis after his highly successful novel and stage play (later a musical too), “Auntie Mame.”    

The book was a send-up of an archetype of the Gabor Sisters, rolled into one “Belle Poitrine,” a kind of Lorelei Lee from “Drifters Row” (where the poor lived in “Venezuela,” Illinois), who marries a string of men of different sorts on her aspiring way to wealth, fame and social and cultural position.

Neil Simon had the idea of writing all the male roles (the husbands, etc.) for Sid Caesar. Modern audiences don’t know much if anything about Sid Caesar, but for those of us who were around at the time and old enough to understand simple English, Caesar was a huge star and very very funny all the time.

Little Me Broadway Poster , 1962
He played old and young characters in this show, although at the time, to these young eyes he was entirely old. Except he played young as a send-up, and couldn’t be anything but hilarious. I loved the show then – and the Coleman-Leigh songs were wonderful  -- one of them became a popular hit (“I’ve Got Your Number”).  Carolyn Leigh was one of the wittiest lyricists of mid-century Broadway musicals, a generational successor to the great Dorothy Fields.

The original version opened to almost rave reviews except for the New York Times which could put a damper on any show with a neutral review, and did with this one.  I never understood it because it was such a funny show and full of music and dancing and satire, about the almighty climb for money and fame that preoccupies much of American sensibilities to this day.

This production seems even better than the one in memory. It may be because I’m much older and have been around to see much if not all that goes on in human relationships. And the audience loved it. It turned out to be what Variety used to call a “Laff Riot!”  There are shades of burlesque and vaudeville melded into the modern choreography and Coleman and Leigh’s sophisticated music.

But Christian Borle who plays all of the roles written for Sid Caesar – I think there are seven – is hilarious in each and every one (along with some very quick costume changes). But as great as Borle is – the rest of the cast – Judy Kaye as the elder Belle Poitrine writing her memoirs with the help of “Patrick Dennis” played by David Garrison, and the young Belle, played by Rachel York; Lewis J. Stadlen and Lee Wilkof (who played the Bucksbaum Brothers, a couple of vaudeville promoters), is right up there with him.
The Cast of Encores! revival production of "Little Me" taking their bows yesterday afternoon at the City Center theater.
I haven’t read any of the recent reviews of this production but I can tell you that the theater was sold out, and the audience was in a total state of amusement (where you find yourself laughing at almost anything going on on the stage)(and the lines/and the lyrics). Unadulterated Fun is the word; almost a relic of an experience in theater or entertainment today.

Also. What is so amazing about these Encores! productions – and “Little Me” is a stand-out – is The amazing TALENT up there on the stage. The theatre talent in this town, just waiting for an opportunity to cheer up the world, without peer. This is an extraordinary cast of singers, dancers, actors. Everyone is just perfect. There are the leads, the stars, shall we say, but not a soul who touches those boards doesn’t leave you in a state of awe (and laughing).
Rachel York who played the young Belle Poitrine in the red sequins, Christian Borle, the male lead (7 different characters) in the white pullover; Judy Kaye, (the elder Belle Poitrine, memoirist) next to Tony Yazabeck (in white dinner jacket), and to his right Lewis J. Stadlen, who plays one of the Bucksbaum Brothers.
My friend and I left City Center yesterday afternoon in a state of Sunday bliss, as if we’d just been treated to the sunniest side of humanity (on a dark, grey Sunday afternoon in early Feb.) I hope they revive it for Broadway so the world can see these people perform what brilliance Feuer and Martin and Neil Simon and Carolyn Leigh and Cy Coleman, and Bob Fosse created for all to see.

The original show had about a year’s run on Broadway – which was not a big success in those days. And another good run in London. But I’ll bet the principals never dreamed that fifty years later, out of the trunk they were killing the audiences like never before. Bravo Encores! and your brilliant cast.
The entire cast taking their bows, after an afternoon of triumph in the theater.
 

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Underfoot. 1:00 PM. Photo: Jeffrey Hirsch.
Wednesday, February 12, 2014. Yesterday was cold, sunny and dry in New York. Icy, and at night the kind that hurts the tip of your nose and your ears (if you’re not wearing a cap – almost everyone is). Tonight they are forecasting a big snowstorm (well, 3 to 10 inches) through Thursday. Whatever, it’ll be a good time to be inside.

I began the evening down at Michael’s (where coincidentally I began the afternoon at lunch. The occasion was the 3rd annual dinner of The Dream Team of the Society of Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center, a benefit evening  honoring “Long-standing Dream Team members” Nancy Jarecki and Ashley McDermott, and MSK retired Director of Social Work, Jane Bowling.

The Society of Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center is a volunteer organization within Memorial Sloan Kettering Hospital that is dedicated to promoting the well-being of patients, supporting cancer research and providing public education on the early prevention detection, and treatment of cancer.
The guests at cocktails last night at the Society for Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center's "Dream Team" benefit dinner, at Michael's restaurant.
Memorial Sloan Kettering itself is the world’s largest and oldest private cancer center. It bears the distinction as one of the premier cancer centers in the world. The Society volunteers also, from what I’ve observed, bear the distinction of being seriously involved in its projects, whatever they may be. It is one of those organizations that promotes optimal service and its members are almost religious in their devotion and participation.

The Dream Team was founded with the mission of fulfilling deeply held wishes of adult patients at MSK. Working with the Department of Social Work, they have fulfilled more than 1600 “dreams” since its inception in 1988.
Ashley McDermott and Mary Davidson.Martha Glass and Dr. Jane Bowling.
Mrs. Jarecki has been on the Dream Team for twenty years, having joined at the suggestion of Peter and Jamee Gregory who knew of her lifelong interest in charitable causes. She is also one of those women who is entrepreneurial and enterprising. That began in her life with participating in the creation of what is now E! Entertainment Television in Los Angeles.

In 1990, she moved to New York. She is also the creator of bettybeauty, inc. – a specialty beauty products company. She is also now engaged in writing a memoir about her recent recovery from a subarchnoid hemorrhage.

Married, with three children, she also serves on the boards of Project ALS, New Yorkers for Children, and Robin Hood’s Leadership Board. I don’t know her personally, but you can see the modus vivendi of this very energetic woman who last night in her chic black bowler hat and blonde hair looks like a very young Elaine Stritch. I couldn’t get the image out of my head, so I had to say it.
Bettina Zilkha and Jamee Gregory.Nancy Jarecki in her chic black bowler.
Ashley Brittingham McDermott is also an LA-raised young woman, mother of four teenagers. She moved to New York in 1992 with her husband Jeff McDermott, and joined the Dream Team in 1998 ate the suggestion of the late great Tom Guinzburg, a quintessential New York gentleman, a scion of the publishing business (Viking) and also an active man in charitable causes. She too has been on the boards of New Yorkers for Children, Project ALS and also Joyful Heart Foundation. She has also just completed her first novel.

Dr. Jane Bowling retired last December after 16 years as Director of the Department of Social Work at MSK, directing a staff of thirty-five, providing a range of psychosocial counseling services to patients and families.
Sue Chalom with Chappy and Melissa Morris.
In the last several years Dr. Bowling developed a “Building Resilience through the Arts Program” which provided lunch and a respite for the MSK staff. The Programs included performances by students of Alvin Ailey, Jazz at Lincoln Center, as well as piano recitals and presentations from museums in the area. She also encouraged her staffs to develop other hospital wide programs such as the Bereavement Program, the Caring Canine Program and the Kids express program.

Each of the three women spoke briefly about their work and enthusiasm for the Dream Team which does not advertise itself publicly (as I’m doing now). Jarecki told a story about getting a “dream” for a young man who had cancer. His “dream” was to meet the Heavy Metal group Metallica. She was able to arrange his attendance at a Metallica concert at Madison Square Garden, and it turned out to be a (very long) night of rock dreams come true, although it extended into the next day (just like all rock dreams) of partying with the band and their friends. And you got from her lively account that a very good time was had by all, just like the guy's dream, maybe even better.
The Garden Room at Michael's last night at 8 PM.
The southern wall of windows of the room look out on the snow-covered garden in the courtyard of famous Rockefeller Art Deco apartments that run between 55th and 54th Street.
Big turnout for cocktails and dinner, including Jeremy and Friederike Biggs, Courtney Arnot, Melisssa and Chappie Morris,Barbara and Kevin McLaughlin, Moffie Potter Aston,, Jennifer Creel, Mary and Marvin Davidson (Mrs. Davidson introduced the honorees), Dennis Basso and Michael Cominotto, Alexia Hamm Ryan, Peter and Jamee Gregory, Caroline Dean, Danielle Ganek, Martha Glass (who is the current president of the SMSKCC), Dayssi Olarte de Kanavos, George Farias, Lisa Fine, Ann Coley, Beth and Ron Dozoretz, Tom and Alice Tisch, Christine Schwarzman, Victoria Anstead, Thomas and Ingrid Edelman, Mark Gilbertson, Bettina Zilkha, Kamie and Richared Lightburn, Lisa McCarthy,  Holly Peterson, Fernanda Kellogg and Kirk  Henckele, Wendy Goldberg, Anki Leeds, Amanda Taylor, Kevin and Hampton Luzak, Kalliope Karella, a tableful of Jareckis – Andrew, Henry, Gloria, Donna, Tom; Anne Keating, Sue Chalom ... to name only a few!  A good night for a good cause as well as a sense of pure fellowship and camaraderie in the room.

The Michael’s menu:Winter Risotto, mushrooms and chard; followed by Michael’s Cheddar Burger with Arugula, Tomato, Pickles and mounts of very slender fries or, Organic Salmon, bacon braised red cabbage and pommery,  mustard sauce, followed by Chocolate Layer Cake, Berry Compote,Vanilla Bean Ice Cream.
The table setting. I was seated between Muffie Potter Aston and Beth Dozoretz, both of whom are interesting dinner partners and like this one, not at a loss for words and thoughts.
I didn’t get to the Cake as I wanted to stop by the Four Seasons Restaurant where Nicole Hanley Mellon was hosting a birthday party of her husband Matthew (whose actual birthday was January 28th).

The party was called for 9:30 (to midnight), cocktails desserts and dancing. I got there about ten-fifteen, thinking I was almost an hour late, but it was just beginning to gather. You can see from the pictures how the room was lighted, although the arriving crowd was still in the darker part of the room.
The famous Picasso wall cover in the gallery running between the two dining rooms of the Four Seasons restaurant, last night with the check-in table for Matthew Mellon's birthday party.
However, an hour into it, guests were still streaming in. There must have been at least a couple hundred guests. A late party in New York is nothing new but lately it’s almost only downtown. I don’t get downtown very much (at all),  so it was interesting to be reminded of that New York nightlife with the crowd of active New Yorkers who want to get out, be seen, have fun and just enjoy the evening for being there. That’s New York too. That’s what was going on at Matthew Mellon’s birthday bash at the Four Seasons.
Nicole Mellon Hanley.Matthew Mellon.Harry and Laura Slatkin.
The band playing with the dance floor waiting.
Guests still arriving in the Pool Room.
Meanwhile, down in our nation's capital, President and Mrs. Obama held a State Dinner at the White House for President Hollande of the French Republic. Our Washington Social Diarist Carol Joynt thoughtfully provided a guest list for your perusal.

Back in the days of JFK, the State Dinners guest lists were always provided the following day in the New York Times. You can't help looking to see if you know anyone on the list. Do you?
THE PRESIDENT and MRS. OBAMA

HIS EXCELLENCY FRANÇOIS HOLLANDE, PRESIDENT OF THE FRENCH REPUBLIC

Mr. J.J. Abrams, Pacific Palisades, CA
Ms. Katie McGrath

The Honorable Stacey Abrams, United States Representative (Georgia)
Mr. Ben Jealous

Ms. Jill Abramson, The New York Times, New York, NY
Mr. William Woodson

Mr. Charles Adams, Jr., Washington, DC

General Keith Alexander, Director of NSA and Cybercom
Mrs. Debbie Alexander

Mr. Peter G. Angelos, Baltimore, MD
Mrs. Georgia Angelos

Mr. Kader Arif, Minister Delegate for Veterans Affairs, French Republic

The Honorable Caroline Atkinson, Deputy Assistant to the President & Deputy National Security Advisor for International Economics
Mr. Geoffrey Boyd Lamb

Ms. Jennifer Bado-Aleman, Gaithersburg, MD
Mr. Frank Skinner

Mr. Caleb Ballew, Huntsville, AL
Mrs. Kourtney Ballew, Huntsville, AL

Mr. Dan Barber, New York, NY
Mr. David Barber

The Honorable Karen Bass, United States Representative (California)
Ms. Barbara Jordan

Mr. Terrence Bean, Portland, OR
Mr. Robert Iwasaki

Mr. Joel Benenson, New York, NY
Mrs. Lisa Benenson, New York, NY

The Honorable Michael Bennet, United States Senator (Colorado)
Ms. Susan Daggett

Mrs. Andrea Bernstein, New York, NY
Mr. Tom Bernstein

Mr. Peter Beshar, Rye, NY
Mrs. Sarah Beshar

The Honorable Steven Beshear, Governor of the Commonwealth of Kentucky
Mrs. Jane Beshear

The Honorable Joseph Biden, Jr., Vice President of the United States
Dr. Jill Biden

Mr. Robert Hunter Biden, Washington, DC
Mrs. Kathleen Biden

Ms. Mary J Blige, Saddle River, NJ
Mr. Kendu Isaacs

The Honorable Tony Blinken, Assistant to the President and Deputy National Security Advisor
The Honorable Evan Ryan, Assistant Secretary for Educational and Cultural Affairs, U.S. Department of State

Mr. Joseph Blount, Miami Beach, FL
Ms. Katherine Blount

Mrs. Nicole Bricq, Minister for Foreign Trade, French Republic

The Honorable William Burns, Deputy Secretary of State
Ms. Lisa Ann Carty

The Honorable Sylvia Burwell, Director of the Office of Management and Budget
Mr. Steve Burwell

The Honorable Eric Cantor, United States Representative (Virginia)

The Honorable Jay Carney, Assistant to the President and Press Secretary
Ms. Claire Shipman

Mr. Jim Chanos, New York, NY
Ms. Crystal A Connors

Mr. Brian Cladoosby, LaConner, WA
Mrs. Nina Cladoosby

The Honorable James Clapper, Director of National Intelligence
Mrs. Susan Clapper

The Honorable Max Cleland, Secretary of the American Battle Monuments Commission
Mrs. Linda Dean

Mr. Steve Clemons, The Atlantic, Washington, DC
Mr. Andrew Oros

The Honorable David L. Cohen, Philadelphia, PA
Mrs. Rhonda Cohen

The Honorable David Cohen, Under Secretary for Terrorism and Financial Intelligence, U.S. Department of the Treasury
Mrs. Suzy Cohen

Mr. Stephen Colbert, New York, NY
Mrs. Evie Colbert

Ms. Joanna Coles, Cosmopolitan Magazine, New York, NY
Mr. Peter Godwin

Mr. Jason Collins, Los Angeles, CA
Mr. Brunson Green

Mr. Jean-Marie Colombani, JMC Media, French Republic

Mr. Marcello Conviti, Carmat, French Republic

Mr. Bradley Cooper, New York, NY
Ms. Suki Waterhouse

Mr. James Crane, Houston, TX

The Honorable Danielle Crutchfield, Assistant to the President and Director of Scheduling and Advance

The Honorable Elijah Cummings, United States Representative (Maryland)
Dr. Maya Rockeymoore Cummings

Mr. Philippe Dauman, New York, NY
Mrs. Deborah Dauman

His Excellency François Delattre, Ambassador of the Republic of France to the U.S.
Mrs. Sophie L'Hélias Delattre

General Martin Dempsey, Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff
Mrs. Diane Dempsey

Mr. Stéphane Distinguin, Cap Digital, French Republic

Dr. Karen Donfried, Special Assistant to the President, Senior Director for European Affairs
Mr. Alan Untereiner

The Honorable Mike Donilon, Alexandria, VA
Mrs. Trish Donilon

Mr. Roland Du Luart, Senator from Sarthe, President of the Franco-American Friendship Committee, French Republic

Mrs. Shefali Duggal, San Francisco, CA
Mr. Rajat Duggal

Mr. Ken Ehrlich, Westlake Village, CA
Mrs. Harriet Ehrlich

His Excellency Laurent Fabius, Minister for Foreign Affairs, French Republic

Mr. Matthias Fekl, Representative of the National Assembly, French Republic

Mrs. Genevière Fioraso, Minister for Higher Education and Research, French Republic

Mr. Ken Fisher, Rockville, MD
Mrs. Tammy Fisher

The Honorable Anthony Foxx, Secretary of Transportation
Mrs. Samara Foxx

Mr. Ken Frazier, Whitehouse Station, NJ
Mrs. Andrea Frazier

The Honorable Michael Froman, Ambassador and U.S. Trade Representative
Ms. Nancy Goodman

The Honorable Jason Furman, Chairman, Council of Economic Advisors
Ms. Eve A. Gerber, Washington, DC

Mr. Mark Gallogly, New York, NY
Ms. Elizabeth Strickler

Mr. Pierre Gattaz, President of MEDEF, French Republic

Ms. Thelma Golden, New York, NY
Mr. Duro Olowu

Mr. John Goldman, Atherton, CA
Mrs. Marcia Goldman

Ms. Julianna Goldman, Bloomberg News, New York, NY
The Honorable Mike Gottlieb, Associate Counsel to the President

The Honorable Philip H Gordon, Special Assistant to the President for National Security Affairs
Mrs. Rachel Gordon

The Honorable Danielle Gray, Assistant to the President and Cabinet Secretary
Ms. Jaunique Sealey

The Honorable Chuck Hagel, Secretary of Defense
Ms. Allyn Hagel

Ms. Laura G Haim, Canal Plus and I-Tele French TV, Washington, DC
Mr. Ara Aprikian

The Honorable William Haslam, Governor of the State of Tennessee
Mrs. Crissy Haslam

Mr. Samuel Heins, Wayzata, MN
Ms. Stacey Mills

Mr. Jean-Paul Herteman, Safran, French Republic

The Honorable Heather Higginbottom, Deputy Secretary of State
Ambassador Daniel Sepulveda, Deputy Assistant Secretary of State and U.S. Coordinator for International Communications and Information Policy

The Honorable Eric Holder, Jr., United States Attorney General
Dr. Sharon Malone

The Honorable John P. Holdren, Assistant to the President for Science and Technology
Dr. Patricia Falcone, Associate Director for National Security and International Affairs

Mrs. Laura Holgate, Senior Director for WMD Terrorism and Threat Reduction
Dr. Rick Holgate

Mr. Steve Holland, Reuters, Alexandria, VA
Mrs. Lucie Holland

Mr. Jean-Paul Huchon, Paris Region President, French Republic

Mr. Irwin Jacobs, La Jolla, CA
Mrs. Joan Jacobs

Mr. Jean-Marc Janaillac, Transdev, French Republic

The Honorable Valerie Jarrett, Senior Advisor and Assistant to the President for Intergovernmental Affairs and Public Engagement

Mr. Paul Jean-Ortiz, Diplomatic Advisor to the President, French Republic

The Honorable Sally Jewell, Secretary of the Interior
The Honorable Mike Connor, Bureau of Reclamation Commissioner

The Honorable Jeh Johnson, Secretary of Homeland Security
Dr. Susan DiMarco

The Honorable Kevin Johnson, Mayor of the City of Sacramento
Ms. Michelle Rhee

Mr. Hubert Joly, Richfield, MN

Ms. Natalie Jones, Acting Chief of Protocol, U.S. Department of State

Justice Elena Kagan, Justice of the Supreme Court of the United States

Ms. Mindy Kaling, Universal City, CA
Ms. Jocelyn Leavitt

Ms. Roberta Kaplan, New York, NY
Ms. Rachel Lavine

The Honorable Cody Keenan, Assistant to the President and Director of Speechwriting
Ms. Kristen Bartoloni

The Honorable Patrick F. Kennedy, Under Secretary for Management, U.S. Department of State
Ms. M. Elizabeth Swope

The Honorable John Kerry, Secretary of State

The Honorable Leslie Kiernan, Deputy Assistant to the President and Deputy Counsel to the President
Mr. Paul Kiernan

The Honorable Ronald Klain, Chevy Chase, MD
Ms. Monica Medina

Ms. Christine Lagarde, Managing Director of the International Monetary Fund

Mrs. Anne Lauvergeon, Chairwoman of "Innovation 2030" Committee, French Republic

Mr. Jonathan Lavine, Weston, MA
Ms. Emily Lavine

Mr. Jean-Yves Le Gall, CNES, French Republic

The Honorable Patrick Leahy, United States Senator (Vermont)
Mrs. Marcelle Leahy

Mr. Frédéric Lefebvre, Representative of the National Assembly, French Republic

Ms. Corine Lesnes, Le Monde. Paris, France
Mr. John Ruddy

The Honorable Jack Lew, Secretary of the Treasury
Dr. Ruth Schwartz

Dr. Tara Leweling, Director for NATO & European Affairs
Mr. Harun Dogo

Ms. Julia Louis-Dreyfus, Mt. Kisco, NY
Mr. William Louis-Dreyfus

Mr. Emmanuel Macron, Deputy Chief of Staff to the President, French Republic

Ms. Kathy Manning, Greensboro, NC
Mr. Randall Kaplan

The Honorable Alyssa Mastromonaco, Assistant to the President and Deputy Chief of Staff for Operations

The Honorable Denis McDonough, Assistant to the President and Chief of Staff
Mrs. Kari McDonough

Mr. Cappy McGarr, Dallas, TX
Mrs. Janie McGarr

Mr. Raymond McGuire, New York, NY
Ms. Crystal McCrary

The Honorable Brian McKeon, Deputy Assistant to the President, Executive Secretary and Chief of Staff
Ms. Lizabeth Tankersley

Mr. Eliseo Medina, La Canada-Flintridge, CA
Ms. Arcelia Rocio Saenz

Ms. Constance Milstein, Washington, DC
Mr. Jehan Christophe de la Haye St. Hilaire

Ms. Nicola Miner, San Francisco, CA
Mr. Robert Mailer Anderson

The Honorable Lisa Monaco, Assistant to the President for Homeland Security and Counterterrorism and Deputy National Security Advisor
Mr. Mark Monaco

The Honorable Ernest Moniz, Secretary of Energy
Mrs. Naomi Moniz

Mr. Bobby Monks, Portland, ME

Mr. Arnaud Montebourg, Minister for Industrial Renewal, French Republic

Mr. Aquilino Morelle, Political Advisor to the President, French Republic

Mr. Pierre Moscovici, Minister for Economy and Finance, French Republic

Mr. Bruce Mosler, New York, NY
Mr. Willard Freeman

The Honorable Cecilia Muñoz, Assistant to the President and Director of the Domestic Policy Council
Mr. Amit A. Pandya

Mr. Elon Musk, Los Angeles, CA
Mrs. Talulah Musk

Mr. Pierre Nanterme, Accenture, French Republic

Ms. Karen Narasaki, Washington, DC
Mr. Vivek Malhotra

The Honorable Victoria Nuland, Assistant Secretary, Bureau of European and Eurasian Affairs, U.S. Department of State
Mr. Robert Kagan

The Honorable Michael Nutter, Mayor of the City of Philadelphia
Mrs. Lisa Nutter

Mr. Kevin F. O'Malley, St. Louis, MO
Mrs. Dena O'Malley

Ms. Julie Pace, Associated Press, Washington, DC
Mr. Michael Ferenczy

The Honorable Jennifer Palmieri, Assistant to the President and Communications Director
Mr. James Lyons

Mrs. Fleur Pellerin, Minister Delegate for SMEs, Innovation and the Digital Economy, French Republic

The Honorable Nancy Pelosi, United States Representative (California)
Mrs. Jacqueline Kenneally

Mr. Fabien Penone, Deputy Diplomatic Advisor to the President, French Republic

Mr. Guillaume Pepy, SNCF, French Republic

The Honorable Tom Perez, Secretary of Labor
Ms. Ann Marie Staudenmaier

The Honorable Dan Pfeiffer, Assistant to the President and Senior Advisor

Mr. Richard Plepler, New York, NY
Mrs. Lisa Plepler

The Honorable John Podesta, Counselor to the President
Mrs. Mary Podesta

The Honorable Samantha Power, Permanent Representative of the U.S. to the United Nations
Mr. Cass Sunstein

The Honorable Penny Pritzker, Secretary of Commerce
Mr. Nicholas Pritzker

General Benoît Puga, Military Advisor to the President, French Republic

Mr. Tangi Quéméner, Agence France-Presse, Bethesda, MD
Ms. Anne Porquet

Ms. Azita Raji, Tiburon, CA
Mr. Gary Syman

The Honorable Stephanie C Rawlings-Blake, Mayor of the City of Baltimore
Mr. Kent Blake

The Honorable Ben Rhodes, Assistant to the President, Deputy National Security Advisor for Strategic Communications & Speechwriting
Ms. Ann Norris

The Honorable Steven Ricchetti, Assistant to the President and Chief of Staff to the Vice President
Mrs. Amy Ricchetti

The Honorable Susan Rice, Assistant to the President and National Security Advisor
Mr. Ian Cameron

Mrs. Claudine Ripert-Landler, Press Advisor, French Republic

Mr. Charles H Rivkin, Washington, DC
Ms. Susan Tolson

Mrs. Rachel Robinson, New York, NY
Mr. Norman Siegel

The Honorable Harold Rogers, United States Representative (Kentucky)
Mrs. Cynthia Rogers

Mr. James Roosevelt, Jr., Cambridge, MA
Mrs. Ann Roosevel

Mrs. Laura Ross, New York, NY
Mr. James Ross

Mr. Alain Rousset, Aquitaine Region President, French Republic

The Honorable Edward Randall Royce, United States Representative (California)
Mrs. Marie Royce, Washington, DC

The Honorable Kathy Ruemmler, Assistant to the President and Counsel to the President, Washington, DC

Ms. Margaret-Angèle Russell, New York, NY
Mr. Robert Kaplan

The Honorable Paul Ryan, United States Representative (Wisconsin)
Mrs. Janna Ryan

Mr. Lee Saunders, Washington, DC
Mrs. Lynne Saunders

Mrs. Barbara Schmidt, Boca Raton, FL
Mr. Richard Schmidt

The Honorable Charles Schumer, United States Senator (New York)
Ms. Iris Weinshall

Mr. Pete Selleck, Greenville, SC
Mrs. Nancy Selleck

The Honorable Thomas A. Shannon, Jr., Counselor to the Secretary of State
Mrs. Maria Shannon

Reverend Alfred Sharpton, New York, NY
Ms. Aisha I. McShaw

Mrs. Beth Shaw, New York, NY
Ms. Rebecca Shaw

The Honorable Wendy Sherman, Under Secretary for Political Affairs, U.S. Department of State
Mr. Bruce Stokes

The Honorable Liz Sherwood-Randall, White House Coordinator for Defense Policy
Dr. Jeffrey Randall

The Honorable Peter Shumlin, Governor of the State of Vermont
Ms. Sarah Schmidt

The Honorable David Simas, Assistant to the President and Deputy Senior Advisor for Communications and Strategy
Ms. Shauna McCarty

Ms. Liz Simons, Atherton, CA
Mr. Mark Heising

Mrs. Sarah Smiley, Bangor, ME
Commander Dustin Smiley

Mr. Chuck Smith, Jr., Winnetka, IL
Mrs. Melissa Smith

Mr. Keith Smith, Ashland, VA
Mr. Burton Smith

Mr. Michael Smith, Los Angeles, CA
Ms. Natalie Massenet

Ms. Kim Snow, Thorton, PA
Mr. James Snow

Mr. Kenneth Solomon, Pacific Palisades, CA
Mrs. Melissa Solomon

Mr. Arne Sorenson, Bethesda, MD
Mrs. Ruth Sorenson

The Honorable Gene Sperling, Assistant to the President for Economic Policy and Director of the National Economic Council
Mr. Rick Sperling

Ms. Alexandra Stanton, New York, NY
Ms. Domna Stanton

Mr. Laurent Stefanini, Chief of Protocol, French Republic

Mr. Randall Stephenson, Dallas, TX
Mrs. Lenise Stephenson

Mr. David Stern, New York, NY
Mrs. Dianne Stern

The Honorable Todd Stern, United States Special Envoy for Climate Change
Ms. Jennifer Klein

Mrs. Jane Stetson, Norwich, VT
Mr. Bill Stetson III

Mr. Mark Taplin, Charge d'Affaires, U.S. Department of State
Ms. Kathy Kavalec

The Honorable Tina Tchen, Assistant to the President and Chief of Staff to the First Lady

Mr. Benoit Thieulin, Digital National Committee President, French Republic

Mr. Andrew Tobias, New York, NY
Ms. Marie Brenner

Ms. Cicely Tyson, New York, NY
Mr. Reginald Austin Henry

The Honorable David Wade, Chief of Staff to the Secretary of State
Ms. Elizabeth Alexander

The Honorable Debbie Wasserman Schultz, United States Representative (Florida)
Mr. Steven Schultz

Mr. Frank White, Jr., Washington, DC
Mr. William Kirk

Ms. Edith Windsor, New York, NY
Ms. Julie Milligan

Mr. Richard Winter, Auriga USA
Mrs. Alexandra Winter

Mr. Jeff Zucker, CNN, New York, NY
Mrs. Caryn Zucker
 

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A common site around town (Broadway and 80th Street). 3:00 PM. Photo: Jeffrey Hirsch.
Friday, February 14, 2013. St. Valentine’s Day. Among the famous and celebrated who share this birthday are abolitionist leader Frederick Douglass, American journalist/drama critic, George Jean Nathan, comedian Jack Benny, actress Thelma Ritter, Jimmy Hoffa, Hugh Downs, Murray the K, Edwina Mountbatten, the Countess of Burma, Vic Morrow, Phyllis McGuire, Florence Henderson of the Brady Bunch, our former Mayor Michael Bloomberg, journalist Carl Bernstein, Gregory Hines, Tim Buckley of Blood, Sweat & Tears; Renee Fleming, Meg Tilly, Kevyn Aucoin, and my late beloved favorite aunt, and also especially JH’s wife Danielle Rossi Hirsch. Happy Birthday!

February 14th birthdays (clockwise from top left): Frederick Douglass, Jack Benny, Edwina Mountbatten, and George Jean Nathan.
Mother Nature is celebrating in New York, showing her resolute strength with some harsh winter weather. It rained heavily in New York Thursday evening. More snow is predicted; snow, cold, then rain, then snow, more cold. Large elliptical puddles six and eight inches deep, and even more, on every  corner and speeding brooks of melting snows on all the curb side.  That’s what we’re getting.

The weather forecasters go on and on about “the worst,” the “greatest,” the calamity, etc. So now you hear a lot of people saying things like “I can’t take it anymore ..., etc.”

In the last few years yes, it’s been a lot milder. But really. I remember some winters in the late 90s when it snowed almost everyday and the snowbanks in the city were five, six and seven feet high for the whole winter. All the years I’ve lived in the East — which is all my life with the exception of the fourteen years I lived in Los Angeles — tough winters were often the norm.

A friend of mine came over from London for a few days, delighted to see the snow. Because all they’re having over there is rain and great floods. So bad that the train tracks to Cornwall are out; many towns and homes throughout the country have been hit with flooding, including parts of Windsor, and even some of the grace & favor cottages on the Windsor Castle estate. My friend lives in Chelsea in London and is expecting that next week she may have to sandbag her house.
The view around town (via JH).
What makes it worse for many of us is the lack of Sun in our days. It turns a lot of us into moods of grey, as well as funk. A lot of funk. More people confide to me that they feel that way. I hear that from all parts of the country, even the sunnier ones. Loreal Sherman, the adored and respected receptionist at Michael’s, grew up in Minnesota. She was telling me the other day when we were discussing the “funk,” that it was always this time of year that got people down mentally and emotionally. The sensible ones find ways to fortify themselves. Loreal takes some extra Vitamin D to make up for the loss of the Sun.
Michael Lutin, the internet astrologer, erstwhile Vanity Fair astrology columnist, posted on his daily website www.michaellutin.com, this past Wednesday: “Wednesday — have you noticed? People are starting to become ... UNGLUED.” Michael has a showman’s sense of delivery and humor ... but a lot of people got the message.

Today is the last day of New York Fashion Week. I didn’t get to any shows this year, for the first time in many. Ellin Saltzman, who knows the market and the business, is the best commentator around when it comes to explaining what she sees and how she thinks it applies to the customer. Me, I wouldn’t know the first thing about it.
Meanwhile in St. Barth's ... Joy and friends dealing with the news of the Manhattan weather.
In the earlier years, I went to the tents in Bryant Park. There was an excitement about the place; the thrill of the new and the never-seen-before as well, and the thrill of being in New York which has long been the center of American fashion with its century-old garment industry. The Shows move to Lincoln Center expanded and institutionalized the week, and the business of showing.

Now it’s an international business in and of itself, laced with current contemporary celebrities whose clothes are more like costumes half the time, and something of a bore. This year a lot of designers (and there are a lot of them) are going to other venues, many of which are downtown. So the sense of a center, a convocation of fashion, of a core, that was provided by the temporary tents in Bryant Park, has been diffused and scattered.
Fashion Week in Bryant Park.
Fashion Week in Lincoln Center.
Fashion Week is always a quiet week on the regular social calendar, except for the parties, most of which are those that the designers and their backers give after their shows. Like after-theater parties, all sizes, all over town, often running into the late night, etc.: a  good place for people to see each other over and over for a week. I mean that; it’s one of the great ways young New Yorkers form their early social relationships in the city, which is a new place of living for many of them. Fun when it’s new, and then of course with enough of them under your belt, it turns to been-there-done-that.

Oscar and Boaz.
Speaking of matters of Fashion Week, today on the NYSD we’re re-running a HOUSE interview with Boaz Mazor who is the director of sales for Oscar de la Renta, the man who travels the globe, selling the ODLR collection to the best dressed women across the world.

Boaz who grew up in Israel, came to this country as a very young man several years ago. He has a warm, ebullient personality, is quick to laugh and quick to care (a good friend), and very popular. We’ve known each other for about twenty-five years, and we rarely see one another as he travels sixty or seventy percent of his year (or so it seems), but when we do, it’s the pleasure of his company. He’s a natural bon vivant who is also a very hard worker.

Catching up. I didn’t file a Diary yesterday, so we missed the Michael’s Wednesday lunch. Like the US Mail, Michael’s Wednesday customers will brave any storm, avert any crisis (within reason) to take part in this weekly breeze of appointments, deals, interviews, visits and pow-wows.

In the  corner:Donny Deutsch was lunching with Piers Morgan exec producer Jonathan Wald. Next door on one side: Richard Johnson of the NY Post with producer Michael Mailer; across the aisle, Dr. Imber with Jerry della Femina and Michael Kramer

Dr. Imber has just published a mystery novel, “Wendell Black MD,” “A New York City Police surgeon finds himself in the middle of an international drug-smuggling ring – or is it an even more dangerous conspiracy?” Read and find out. It’s just out, published by Bourbon Street Books, a division of HarperCollins, and it’s got rave reviews so far (I haven’t read it yet).

Click to orderWendell Black, MD: A Novel.
Dr. Imber, who is regarded as one of the top three plastic surgeons in New York, is well-dressed, dapper doc with an unassumingly pleasant manner. He clearly is comfortable in his life and loves his work, but he’s one of those guys who’s always got other things he wants to accomplish. Industrious and creative.

Four years ago he published a biography, “Genius on the Edge: The Bizarre Double Life of Dr. William Stewart Halsted,” a man credited with founding American surgery and the effective early use of anesthetics. Dr. Halsted, who was born in 1852 and lived to age 70 in 1922, was a distinguished, innovative, highly regarded surgeon. He also was an early user of cocaine as an anesthetic.

He became an addict.  At one point he went to rehabilitation to a private hospital for such purposes where they gave him morphine to counteract the need for cocaine. He became addicted to both drugs, and remained so for most of the rest of his life. During that time he continued to achieve great things in the development of his profession. 

Abigail Zuger in the New York Times called the book a particularly expert and thought-provoking narrative.

Meanwhile back at the table down at Michael’s: Across the way from Duh Boyz, Joe Armstrong was lunching with editor/publisher David Zinczenko. At table one the Paley Center for Media’s Pat Mitchell was hosting a luncheon for Catalina Escobar, a Colombian philanthropist. Ms. Escobar is a “reproductive activist” committed to solving the problem of infant mortality and teenage pregnancy rates in the poorest parts of Colombia. Among the guests was Kate O’Brian, the president of the new Al-Jazeera America  news cable channel. Kate used to be the executive director of ABCNews. She’s a New York girl, born and bred whose father was lifelong journalist with the Hearst papers, Jack O’Brian, so she’s got it in her genes.

I was lunching with that famous glamour girl/fashion muse turned entrepreneur, Nina Griscom whose line of handbags and leather goods that she started a little more than six months ago (Nina Griscom for Gigi) is really taking off both in the stores, and in trunk shows, here in the South and the West, and is now being ordered by luxury stores across the country.
Nina's Spring Collection trunk show on March 19th and 20th at the Little Nell in Aspen. www.ninagriscom.com.
Her next trunk show, (by invitation only), she told me, I think, will be in Aspen in early April. In the meantime, she leaves at the end of the month for another trip to Africa, visiting Uganda and the gorillas, which you’ll eventually read about here on the NYSD. She told me our mutual friend Beth DeWoody is on that safari also.

Around the room:Jamie Colby of Fox News, Todd Joyce of Break Media, Kevin Engl, Coast Asset Mgt.; Lynn Tesoro, Hamilton South’s partner in HL Group, PR;  Anthony Cenname of the WSJ: Diane Clehane MediaBistro’s girl on the scene interviewing Susan Spencer of Woman’s Day; Connie Ann Phillips, publisher of Glamour; Shaheen Knox of Nice Books; Carl Icahn associate, Keith Meister; Shelley Palmer of Palmer Advance Media; former Advertising magnate, Ambassador Carl Spielvogel; Stephen Haft, Jack Kliger, Jamie McGuire of McGuire Communications, Steve Solomon of Rubenstein Associates (PR); John Sykes of Clear Channel Media; political consultant/commentator, PR guru Robert Zimmerman; uber-literary agent Wayne Kabak; actress Leesa Rowland; Mark Pearson of AXA; Sharon Bush with Margot Langenberg. The glamorous Margot told us that she was on the original waitstaff of Michael’s when it first opened in 1989. She’d been attending acting classes nearby and since her father wouldn’t support her aspirations, she went to work – at Michael’s. She loved it; loved the staff and love the clientele. In those early days Michael McCarty had a “no tip” policy and paid his waiters a salary – what they called the European model. There were no objections until one of his former waiters sued him. Ad that was that.

And meanwhile at the bar lunching: Bill Burrs, VP of Rock Music, RCA, who likes to lunch there often with a group of friends, and take in the scene.
After the snows in the morning came the rain in the early evening followed by the snows again after midnight. East End and Avenue at 83rd Street, 1:10 AM.
 

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A common site around town (Broadway and 80th Street). 3:00 PM. Photo: Jeffrey Hirsch.
Friday, February 14, 2013. St. Valentine’s Day. Among the famous and celebrated who share this birthday are abolitionist leader Frederick Douglass, American journalist/drama critic, George Jean Nathan, comedian Jack Benny, actress Thelma Ritter, Jimmy Hoffa, Hugh Downs, Murray the K, Edwina Mountbatten, the Countess of Burma, Vic Morrow, Phyllis McGuire, Florence Henderson of the Brady Bunch, our former Mayor Michael Bloomberg, journalist Carl Bernstein, Gregory Hines, Tim Buckley of Blood, Sweat & Tears; Renee Fleming, Meg Tilly, Kevyn Aucoin, and my late beloved favorite aunt, and also especially JH’s wife Danielle Rossi Hirsch. Happy Birthday!

February 14th birthdays (clockwise from top left): Frederick Douglass, Jack Benny, Edwina Mountbatten, and George Jean Nathan.
Mother Nature is celebrating in New York, showing her resolute strength with some harsh winter weather. It rained heavily in New York Thursday evening. More snow is predicted; snow, cold, then rain, then snow, more cold. Large elliptical puddles six and eight inches deep, and even more, on every  corner and speeding brooks of melting snows on all the curb side.  That’s what we’re getting.

The weather forecasters go on and on about “the worst,” the “greatest,” the calamity, etc. So now you hear a lot of people saying things like “I can’t take it anymore ..., etc.”

In the last few years yes, it’s been a lot milder. But really. I remember some winters in the late 90s when it snowed almost everyday and the snowbanks in the city were five, six and seven feet high for the whole winter. All the years I’ve lived in the East — which is all my life with the exception of the fourteen years I lived in Los Angeles — tough winters were often the norm.

A friend of mine came over from London for a few days, delighted to see the snow. Because all they’re having over there is rain and great floods. So bad that the train tracks to Cornwall are out; many towns and homes throughout the country have been hit with flooding, including parts of Windsor, and even some of the grace & favor cottages on the Windsor Castle estate. My friend lives in Chelsea in London and is expecting that next week she may have to sandbag her house.
The view around town (via JH).
What makes it worse for many of us is the lack of Sun in our days. It turns a lot of us into moods of grey, as well as funk. A lot of funk. More people confide to me that they feel that way. I hear that from all parts of the country, even the sunnier ones. Loreal Sherman, the adored and respected receptionist at Michael’s, grew up in Minnesota. She was telling me the other day when we were discussing the “funk,” that it was always this time of year that got people down mentally and emotionally. The sensible ones find ways to fortify themselves. Loreal takes some extra Vitamin D to make up for the loss of the Sun.
Michael Lutin, the internet astrologer, erstwhile Vanity Fair astrology columnist, posted on his daily website www.michaellutin.com, this past Wednesday: “Wednesday — have you noticed? People are starting to become ... UNGLUED.” Michael has a showman’s sense of delivery and humor ... but a lot of people got the message.

Today is the last day of New York Fashion Week. I didn’t get to any shows this year, for the first time in many. Ellin Saltzman, who knows the market and the business, is the best commentator around when it comes to explaining what she sees and how she thinks it applies to the customer. Me, I wouldn’t know the first thing about it.
Meanwhile in St. Barth's ... Joy and friends dealing with the news of the Manhattan weather.
In the earlier years, I went to the tents in Bryant Park. There was an excitement about the place; the thrill of the new and the never-seen-before as well, and the thrill of being in New York which has long been the center of American fashion with its century-old garment industry. The Shows move to Lincoln Center expanded and institutionalized the week, and the business of showing.

Now it’s an international business in and of itself, laced with current contemporary celebrities whose clothes are more like costumes half the time, and something of a bore. This year a lot of designers (and there are a lot of them) are going to other venues, many of which are downtown. So the sense of a center, a convocation of fashion, of a core, that was provided by the temporary tents in Bryant Park, has been diffused and scattered.
Fashion Week in Bryant Park.
Fashion Week in Lincoln Center.
Fashion Week is always a quiet week on the regular social calendar, except for the parties, most of which are those that the designers and their backers give after their shows. Like after-theater parties, all sizes, all over town, often running into the late night, etc.: a  good place for people to see each other over and over for a week. I mean that; it’s one of the great ways young New Yorkers form their early social relationships in the city, which is a new place of living for many of them. Fun when it’s new, and then of course with enough of them under your belt, it turns to been-there-done-that.

Oscar and Boaz.
Speaking of matters of Fashion Week, today on the NYSD we’re re-running a HOUSE interview with Boaz Mazor who is the director of sales for Oscar de la Renta, the man who travels the globe, selling the ODLR collection to the best dressed women across the world.

Boaz who grew up in Israel, came to this country as a very young man several years ago. He has a warm, ebullient personality, is quick to laugh and quick to care (a good friend), and very popular. We’ve known each other for about twenty-five years, and we rarely see one another as he travels sixty or seventy percent of his year (or so it seems), but when we do, it’s the pleasure of his company. He’s a natural bon vivant who is also a very hard worker.

Catching up. I didn’t file a Diary yesterday, so we missed the Michael’s Wednesday lunch. Like the US Mail, Michael’s Wednesday customers will brave any storm, avert any crisis (within reason) to take part in this weekly breeze of appointments, deals, interviews, visits and pow-wows.

In the  corner:Donny Deutsch was lunching with Piers Morgan exec producer Jonathan Wald. Next door on one side: Richard Johnson of the NY Post with producer Michael Mailer; across the aisle, Dr. Imber with Jerry della Femina and Michael Kramer

Dr. Imber has just published a mystery novel, “Wendell Black MD,” “A New York City Police surgeon finds himself in the middle of an international drug-smuggling ring – or is it an even more dangerous conspiracy?” Read and find out. It’s just out, published by Bourbon Street Books, a division of HarperCollins, and it’s got rave reviews so far (I haven’t read it yet).

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Dr. Imber, who is regarded as one of the top three plastic surgeons in New York, is well-dressed, dapper doc with an unassumingly pleasant manner. He clearly is comfortable in his life and loves his work, but he’s one of those guys who’s always got other things he wants to accomplish. Industrious and creative.

Four years ago he published a biography, “Genius on the Edge: The Bizarre Double Life of Dr. William Stewart Halsted,” a man credited with founding American surgery and the effective early use of anesthetics. Dr. Halsted, who was born in 1852 and lived to age 70 in 1922, was a distinguished, innovative, highly regarded surgeon. He also was an early user of cocaine as an anesthetic.

He became an addict.  At one point he went to rehabilitation to a private hospital for such purposes where they gave him morphine to counteract the need for cocaine. He became addicted to both drugs, and remained so for most of the rest of his life. During that time he continued to achieve great things in the development of his profession. 

Abigail Zuger in the New York Times called the book a particularly expert and thought-provoking narrative.

Meanwhile back at the table down at Michael’s: Across the way from Duh Boyz, Joe Armstrong was lunching with editor/publisher David Zinczenko. At table one the Paley Center for Media’s Pat Mitchell was hosting a luncheon for Catalina Escobar, a Colombian philanthropist. Ms. Escobar is a “reproductive activist” committed to solving the problem of infant mortality and teenage pregnancy rates in the poorest parts of Colombia. Among the guests was Kate O’Brian, the president of the new Al-Jazeera America  news cable channel. Kate used to be the executive director of ABCNews. She’s a New York girl, born and bred whose father was lifelong journalist with the Hearst papers, Jack O’Brian, so she’s got it in her genes.

I was lunching with that famous glamour girl/fashion muse turned entrepreneur, Nina Griscom whose line of handbags and leather goods that she started a little more than six months ago (Nina Griscom for Gigi) is really taking off both in the stores, and in trunk shows, here in the South and the West, and is now being ordered by luxury stores across the country.
Nina's Spring Collection trunk show on March 19th and 20th at the Little Nell in Aspen. www.ninagriscom.com.
Her next trunk show, (by invitation only), she told me, I think, will be in Aspen in early April. In the meantime, she leaves at the end of the month for another trip to Africa, visiting Uganda and the gorillas, which you’ll eventually read about here on the NYSD. She told me our mutual friend Beth DeWoody is on that safari also.

Around the room:Jamie Colby of Fox News, Todd Joyce of Break Media, Kevin Engl, Coast Asset Mgt.; Lynn Tesoro, Hamilton South’s partner in HL Group, PR;  Anthony Cenname of the WSJ: Diane Clehane MediaBistro’s girl on the scene interviewing Susan Spencer of Woman’s Day; Connie Ann Phillips, publisher of Glamour; Shaheen Knox of Nice Books; Carl Icahn associate, Keith Meister; Shelley Palmer of Palmer Advance Media; former Advertising magnate, Ambassador Carl Spielvogel; Stephen Haft, Jack Kliger, Jamie McGuire of McGuire Communications, Steve Solomon of Rubenstein Associates (PR); John Sykes of Clear Channel Media; political consultant/commentator, PR guru Robert Zimmerman; uber-literary agent Wayne Kabak; actress Leesa Rowland; Mark Pearson of AXA; Sharon Bush with Margot Langenberg. The glamorous Margot told us that she was on the original waitstaff of Michael’s when it first opened in 1989. She’d been attending acting classes nearby and since her father wouldn’t support her aspirations, she went to work – at Michael’s. She loved it; loved the staff and loved the clientele. In those early days Michael McCarty had a “no tip” policy and paid his waiters a salary – what they called the European model. There were no objections until one of his former waiters sued him. Ad that was that.

And meanwhile at the bar lunching: Bill Burrs, VP of Rock Music, RCA, who likes to lunch there often with a group of friends, and take in the scene.
After the snows in the morning came the rain in the early evening followed by the snows again after midnight. East End Avenue at 83rd Street, 1:10 AM.
 

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Full moon over the Hudson on Sunday morning. 6:00 AM. Photo: Jeffrey Hirsch.
Tuesday, February 18, 2014. It was a sunny day, yesterday in New York. Cold, but ... it’s winter. Hard getting around in places, but it was a national holiday and so many offices were closed, as well as schools, so it was quieter. Another snowstorm is predicted at the time of this writing (midnight).

People are complaining about it all the time now.  They’ve had enough. I, who was looking forward to lots of snow, and loved it when it came, have joined the aforementioned.

Well, it’s another month until it’s official Spring, and we may not see a speck of it until then (or after). Although now I’m concentrating on the light. On December 21, it was dark at 4:45 PM. Now it’s light until almost six and in a little more than three weeks it’s Daylight Savings Time!! Looking forward.
The full moon up close. 6:05 AM. Photo: JH.
New York Fashion Week has come and gone (remember?) and now the social calendar is about to come to life again. One of the annual events now on the calendar is the PEN American Center Authors’ Evenings which are occurring in a number of private homes through March 11th. I counted a total of 32 of these dinners on the schedule.

It’s a literary evening in that authors are guests of honor,  and they talk about his or her work with the guests. The list of authors is often distinguished and widely varied from Jonathan Ames and Daniel Bergner’s“You Were Never Really Here; What Do Women Want?” to “Lawrence In Arabia” by Scott Anderson to Billy Collins’“Aimless Love: New and Selected Poems” to Linda Fairstein’s latest mystery “Death Angel,” to Jeffrey Toobin’s“The Oath: The Obama White House and the Supreme Court” to James Salter’s“All That Is” and two dozen more. 

It also a fundraising event for PEN American Center The ticket can run into the four figures. You get dinner, a cocktail reception and the author talking (and eventually everybody talking) about the book or the story or the incident or the inspiration. They can be very lively evenings depending on the subject and the emotional response to it. Revenue from the evenings supports PEN's mission to defend free expression around the world and to celebrate the literary achievements such freedoms make possible.
The dinner table at Jackie and Rod Drake's for “an Intimate Discussion on the American Experience” with authors Deborah Solomon and Elizabeth Strout.
Last Wednesday night, for example, Jackie and Rod Drake and Jeanette Watson and Alex Sanger co-hosted an evening billed as “an Intimate Discussion on the American Experience” with authors Deborah Solomon who recently published a biography of artist Norman Rockwell, “American Mirror: The Life and Art of Norman Rockwell”; and Elizabeth Strout, author of “The Burgess Boys," the story of a New England family split by tragedy and the competing values of money, family, success, and home. Cocktails and conversation (including everybody) with a distinguished art critic/biographer and a Pulitzer Prize-winning novelist.
Jackie Weld Drake with hosts Alex and Jeannette Sanger.
Elizabeth Strout and Deborah Solomon.
Kent Sepkowitz and Deborah Solomon.Jackie Weld Drake and Pulitzer-nominated writer Francine du Plessix Gray.
Alex Sanger and Ben Rodriguez-Cubenas.
Jackie Weld Drake, Hans Morris, and Constance Spahn.
Deborah Solomon and Suzanne Nossel, Executive Director of PEN American Center.
Peter and Judy Price.
Last night I attended a dinner for twenty-four, given by Diahn and Tom McGrath including Betty Medsger, author of the recently published “The Burglary; the Discovery of J. Edgar Hoover’s Secret FBI.” The story of the book broke on the front page of the New York Times the first week in January. The burglary was a break-in of an FBI office in Media (talk about ironies), Pennsylvania that occurred on March 8, 1971. It was a turbulent time in America because of the growing public opposition to the Viet Nam War.

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The War was on everyone’s mind, no matter their age, and the streets and the campuses across the country experienced thousands of protests against. In Philadelphia, it was concluded by a group of people against the war that the FBI was involved in more than investigating crimes, but also spying on people they suspected of opposing government policy. Their targets ranged from the Ku Klux Klan to the Black Panthers and a lot of people in between. This group of individuals in Philadelphia decided to have a look at the FBI’s activities from inside their files.

They broke into the agency’s little office in Media, PA on the night of a big fight between Muhammad Ali and Joe Frazier– a brutal 15 rounder watched by millions of people all over America and the rest of the world. The burglars thought no one would be paying attention to anything else that night. They were right. The break had all the earmarks of a very amateur affair: a lock pick and crowbar and they were soon in the files, and removing all of them.

The break-in was barely publicized. It was not revealed that the burglars came away with all kinds of secrets about spying and dirty tricks operations against a lot of Americans including African-Americans as a group.
The local FBI office in Media, Pennsylvania. The burglary of its secret files occurred there on the night of March 8, 1971. The burglars were never caught.J.Edgar Hoover, the greatly feared and powerful director of the FBI.
The burglars, after making their discoveries, sent the stolen files to the The Washington Post, the New York Times, the Los Angeles Times and to two members of Congress, Sen. George McGovern and Rep. Parren Mitchell. The LA Times kept it from the reporter to whom it was sent (Jack Nelson, a frequent critic of the Viet Nam War and the government's policies). A recipients, except the Washington Post, gave the files to the FBI. The reporter who received the information at the Washington Post was the author we met last night at the McGraths', Betty Medsger. Katherine Graham, the paper's publisher decided to go with the material and publish the files. Medsger told us how she got the story, as a young journalist at the Washington Post, receiving the materials and the public outcry at the time — demands that the FBI be investigated, and how the book got to be written after meeting two of the eight burglars many years later.
Betty Medsger, author of "The Burglary."
It’s an extraordinary story a quiet spoken mystery thriller, about the America that we grew up on. Almost two generations have been born since the war ended. They have no idea of the turbulence we were living in. It was a decade of revolution, of the so-called Liberations, of the Civil Rights Movement, of hippiedom, the drug culture, the rock music culture and Watergate -- which brought down a Presidency.

David Frost conducted an exclusive hour interview with Richard Nixon after he resigned the Presidency. At the end of the interview, he asked Mr. Nixon what he believed was the real cause of the whole Watergate affair of surveillance and break-ins and government lying, etc. Mr. Nixon replied: “Viet Nam.” He defined it succinctly with those words, as well as acknowledging the dilemma his country was in.

David Frost and Richard Nixon.
Betty Medsger’s “The Burglary” is about those Americans who love and loved their country at that time, and how they committed themselves to its democratic ideals. Those burglars went public with their identities and their story forty years later.

After dinner, at table Tom McGrath asked her if she’d tell us how it all came about. And as it often is at the McGrath’s table, conversation ensued across and the length of the table. It’s more than just a dinner, or a literary evening: it’s everyone getting outside themselves into the world we are living in, and it’s very stimulating, exciting, and even controversial at times. A great evening.

PEN American Center is an association of 3,500 American writers working to bring down barriers to free expression worldwide. They now have associates in 78 countries working to help writers who are under attack or imprisoned for their works that annoy the powers that be.
John and Bonnie Raines, two of the team who broke into the FBI offices that night forty-three years ago this March, with their grandson. Here is a C-Span video of an interview with them.
Meanwhile, on a much lighter note in a kind of paradise (that also has not been overlooked in the past by trials and turbulence of human society), last Saturday night at the Round Hill Club, Montego Bay, Jamaica, they held their annual Sugar Cane Ball, a black tie affair that brought visitors (and frequent residents) from all over the world.

Ralph, Ricky, Lauren and David, Dylan and Paul, Andrew Lauren arrived at Round Hill in Montego Bay, Jamaica only minutes before the black tie Ball at the famous resort. The weather in New York, and a broken fuel line on Ralph's plane caused the delay.
Front row: Prince Michael of Kent, Ralph and Ricky Lauren, Dylan Lauren. Back row: Paul Arrouet, David Lauren, Lauren Bush Lauren, and Andrew Lauren.
But that night under a big Caribbean moon, on the beach at Round Hill, several hundred dined on lobster, chicken, chocolate dessert and champagne at this year's Black and White-themed Mask Ball after Truman Capote's famous Ball at The Plaza Hotel in New York in 1966.

More than $250,000 was raised for the Hanover Charities. Among the guests and villa owners from all over the world were:  HRH Prince Michael of Kent, who was staying with Caroline St. George at her villa; Prince Michael’s cousin, Princess Elizabeth of Yugoslavia; Lord Charles Spencer Churchill and Sarah Goodbody. Ricky and Thomas Lloyd from Washington, D.C. (he is Bunny Mellon's grandson); Nazee and Roddy Klotz (Partner of Brown Brothers Harriman in New York, and Chairman of Round Hill); Katrin Casserly, Daisy Soros, Jennifer Flanagan; Kay Pick from Beverly Hills; Jim Mitchell; Nan Brenninkmeyer; Nicole Dormeuill; Countess Gabrielle Hahn, from Germany, Philip Geier, Fahad, Azima, Adam and Mahnaz Bartos, Mary Jane and Glenn Creamer from Newport, Jamaican Ambassador, Brenda La Grange Johnson, Alexis Gregory from New York; Nigel Pemberton; Andrew Gordon; Julie and Hans Utsch; Edward and Patricia Falkenberg; Congresswoman Carolyn Maloney; Ned Brown; US Secretary of Commerce, Penny Pritzer and her husband Bryan Trauber; Ashley Leeds-Harland, Melissa  Matheson, former wife of Harrison Ford; Michele Rollins; and Round Hill Vice Chairman, Vanessa Noel.
The scene of this year's Sugar Cane Ball.
David Lauren and Lauren Bush Lauren.
Mark Whitaker and Nazee Klotz. Nan Brenninkmeijer.
Ralph and Ricky Lauren with HRH Prince Michael of Kent.
Congresswoman Caroline Maloney
Nazee Klotz, HRH Prince Michael of Kent, Caroline St. George, and Nan Brenninkmeijer.
Josef Forstmayr with Andrew Lauren.
Rainer Schoenbach, Nazee Klotz, and friend.
Jamaica's artistic dynasty, Barrington Watson with his sculptor artist son Basil.
HRH Prince Michael with Bettina Schoenbach of Germany.
Caroline St. George and Mark Whitaker.
Radford "Roddy" Klotz, Daisy Soros, and Rainer Schoenbach.
HRH Prince Michael of Kent pulling the winning ticket for the raffle, with Omar Robinson, Josef Forstmayr, and Katrin Casserly.
At table.
 

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Looking north along 6th Avenue and 18th Street with the "Siegel-Cooper Department Store" (620 Sixth Ave) in the foreground. When it was built in 1896 (for $4 million), it was the largest department store in the world and the first steel-framed store in New York City. 3:00 PM. Photo: Jeffrey Hirsch.
Wednesday, February 19, 2014.  Not so cold, overcast, mid-30s in the mid-evening, with fog and maybe rain, along with temps in the 40s predicted for today. We could use the rain – to wash away some of these small mountains of now blackened snow still burying parked cars along the side streets.
Photo: JH.
I went down to Michael’s for lunch with Dr. Mary Pulido and Dr. Penny Grant. Dr. Pulido is the Executive Director of the New York Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children. Regular NYSD readers are familiar with our coverage of some of the NYSPCC’s fundraising efforts. Dr. Grant is a pediatrician who works entirely in the field of assisting abused and neglected children.

I did not suffer child abuse growing up, although I did have a father who had a violent temper which was an embedded part of the fabric of family life. He exercised it enough that it was fearsome to this child. Although in retrospect, aside from that “temper,” he was never cruel or unkind or abusive toward me with his words or actions. I was never in danger, although the implied threat (violent anger) was never distant in my thoughts. Neither was he demonstratively affectionate, although he kept a framed verse about his “sweet son” on his bureau. As a child I was struck by the irony when I read it because otherwise I never would have known.
DPC, Mary Pulido, and Dr. Penny Grant.
It is significant that both my mother and father experienced abuse at an early age. They were children at the beginning of the 20th century --  my father in New York City, and my mother in Massachusetts. My mother was orphaned (along with five siblings) when her young mother died during the great Flu Epidemic of 1918.  My mother was 10 or eleven and the second oldest.

Their father had placed the five girl children, including an infant, in a Catholic orphanage, taking only his son with him into his new life without a wife. The girls were on their own thereafter. The youngest child was adopted and never seen again by her siblings. My mother and two of the remaining four girls were placed in foster homes where they all experienced ongoing  incidents of abuse, especially sexual, and neglect until they were old enough to escape. Although they all survived in to stable, productive lives as adults, none ever lost the chill horror of that experience. They did have one advantage: their sisters.

I tell this story because I grew up with a mother deeply affected throughout her long life by the loss of mother, and the experiences of abuse that she experienced growing up. Her experience naturally heightened my awareness of the plight of children subject to abuse and neglect. All children know who is important to their welfare and survival. Without care, kindness and affection, like the rest of us, they are without a life—jacket. My mother -- was mine. That is the role of the parent in nature, although many of us experience or are exposed to people who do not provide any of the above.

So you can see that my interest in the NYSPCC is fueled by personal history. I think that’s true of many of us who share that empathic interest, but not entirely. I asked Mary Pulido, who grew up in Trumbull, Connecticut in a home free of those fears, how she got involved the NYSPCC.

Elbridge Gerry and Henry Bergh, founders of NYSPCC and ASPCA.
She told me that as a child, she wanted to learn how to play the piano. Her parents couldn’t afford a piano but she had a maternal aunt nearby who had one. That aunt also paid for her lessons. Her aunt was a social worker. She knew this although she didn’t know what the term defined. One afternoon when she was at her aunt’s house practicing the piano, her aunt got a phone call. Mary had been instructed beforehand never to listen to her aunt when she was on the phone. The phone call was about a report that came in about a little three-year-old girl who had been tied up with venetian blind string and beaten. The child Mary was so distressed to learn such a thing could happen to a little girl, she decided then that she wanted to be a social worker when she grew up.  

Yesterday Pulido and Grant talked about the problem – which is ongoing and very great: in the last two weeks there have been ten deaths of children in New York City because of child abuse and neglect. Three of them were murder. The problem is everywhere, in all socio-economic brackets although it is generally the poor whose children are deprived of any kind of  support or help. The NYSPCC is doing that.

The Society was formed in 1875 by Elbridge Gerry, a prominent and wealthy lawyer. His action was prompted by the report of a ten year old girl, an orphan, in Hell’s Kitchen who was regularly beaten and starved by her caretaker, a woman she called “momma.”

The case was brought to Gerry’s attention by a social worker who had heard about the abuse, investigated it and decided to find a way to rescue the child. Gerry enlisted the assistance of his friend Henry Bergh who had founded the American Society for Prevention of Cruelty to Animals (ASPCA). They applied the same rules and legal applications to their new NYSPCC.

Denouement. The little girl from Hell’s Kitchen who was rescued was placed in a home where she was well cared for in a loving family. She grew up to marry and have a family and died at the age of 92 in 1956.

Yesterday, Pulido and Grant talked about the child’s experience overcoming the wounds of abuse. The NYSPCC have programs for these children where they are taught how to detect oncoming abuse, how to find safety for themselves and thereafter how to move away emotionally from the trauma of the experience. They told me they are having a lot of success with these programs. Children are resilient by nature to one degree or another.

A child who has one person in his or her life who demonstrates affection regularly toward that child can save a life. The experience of kindness, a gentle disposition, joy of company are powerful antidotes to the misery that abused and neglected children are made to endure with all its negative ramifications. The NYSPCC works everyday to provide that kindness and gentle disposition to many children in New York.

You can help. Somehow. www.nyspcc.org/nyspcc/

Philip Howard, author of “The Rule of Nobody."
Notes on the Calendar: Today at luncheon at The Links Club on 36 East 62nd Street, Philip Howard, author of the best-selling “The Death of Common Sense;” “Life Without Lawyers,” “The Collapse of the Common Good,” will be speaking about his newest work “The Rule of Nobody: Saving America from Dead Laws and Broken Government” (WW Norton, publishers).  

Philip who is a partner of Covington & Burling LLP has advised two presidents and numerous public officials on legal and government reform. You may have seen him on The Daily Showwith Jon Stewart or his TED Talk, which is widely watched.

“The Rule of Nobody” is about how “the United States is so choked with rules that, in effect, nobody is in charge. Millions of words of detailed regulation have usurped official responsibility and severed the links of government to broader society.”

Catching up. While French President François Hollande was heading to Washington for a State Dinner in his honor at the White House, a gala dinner was presented by the Consul General of France, Bertrand Lortholary, and hosted by Drs. Mireille and Dennis Gillings for the launch of Dennis and Mireille Gillings Global Public Health Fellowships.  

Mireille, founder of HUYA Bioscience International, and her husband, Dennis, founder of Quintiles, Inc., hosted the event to announce their renewed commitment to advancing public health in a partnership between the Institut Pasteur and UNC Gillings School of Global Public Health. Awarded annually, these Fellowships will support post-doctoral scientists to join one of the Institut Pasteur’s 32International Network sites based in 25 countries on 5 continents.

Among those attending the luncheon were scientists, biopharmaceutical executives and investment banking leaders. Evercore Partners’ CEO Ralph L. Schlosstein and his wife Jane Hartley, CEO of Observatory Group – and said to be President Obama’s leading candidate for US Ambassador to France - were there along with Evercore Partners’ François Maisonrouge and his wife, “Luxury Alchemist” Ketty Pucci-Sisti Maisonrouge. Also Pablo Legorreta, founder of Royalty Pharma and his wife Almudena, along with Dr. William Haseltine, founder of Human Genome Sciences, and his wife, Maria Eugenia, were joined by Christopher Viehbacher, and his wife Alison, Dr. Barbara Rimer, dean of the UNC Gillings School of Global Public Health, along with Institut Pasteur president Dr. Christian Bréchot, who oversees the 125 year old research institute, and his wife, Dr. Patrizia Paterlini-Bréchot. The Consul General broke his own curfew as the party went on until well after 10pm – the official closing time for the Consulate!
Ralph Schlosstein with Drs. Mireille and Dennis Gillings.
And Last night at the Café Carlyle as per Jesse Kornbluth (Headbutler.com).

"It's so nice to be back at Feinstein's," Nellie McKay quipped, as she settled herself at the piano last night for her debut at the Café Carlyle. At 31, she's younger by many generations than most of the singers who perform there, and she looks even younger — think of a blond, 18-year-old college freshman with Shirley Temple curls, away from home for the first time. Appearances deceive; Nellie McKay has been building her cult for more than a decade.

McKay is a 5-star performer, though it's hard to say of what kind. If she had to pick any one persona, it would probably be as the star of 1930s Broadway musicals. But she doesn't pick. She's Billie Holiday, Carole King, Laura Nyro, Dionne Warwick, Doris Day — and that's just for openers. She rapped in Russian. She sang "Moon River" in German and French. She slipped in a ditty about hypocrites ("I hope you lie yourself to sleep tonight") and dedicated a song "to my arch-nemesis, Barbara Cook."

A Nellie McKay show is as much about her patter as her music. She has a big brain and a bigger mouth, but she was restrained at the Carlyle. Referring to her prop, a silver-topped cane, she boasted that it was used "to beat Gandhi out of first class." She made a toast to colonialism. She tipped the waiter who brought her champagne in coins, took some back ("That's too much") and left him with a dime and a nickel ("Buy yourself a pair of shoes"). So it wasn't until her encore that the very nice young woman in the very proper gown dropped the mask and let loose with ...
 

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